some types of clothes arouse me more than a naked body. How to fight this??

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by loneloan, Nov 1, 2022.

  1. loneloan

    loneloan Fapstronaut

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    (this is something I come across in real life,not indulging in online material)
    I have found,and will have to face ,that women in certain clothes arouse me more than I would if the woman was naked.
    Not neccesarily fetishism such as leather,but "rich" clothes, or attire which carries a certain socio-economic meaning and function seem to burn me more than a naked body. I try to actually think of naked bodies ,since skin is a "jacket of putrefaction". Actually imagining the whole skin,no clothes, makes me think that skin is an organ prone to itching,infections,and deformations of all kind.
    How do I overcome this fixation with clothing as a sexual theme?
     
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  2. I also have something similar going on. I'm more attracted to women wearing tight clothes (like pantyhose and leggings) than if they're naked.

    I wish I could give you any advice here, but I can't, I don't know how to fight this.
     
  3. Idf1998

    Idf1998 Fapstronaut

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    Its normal thing!!! you need to understand that pepole do not attracted To all types of naked body, we have our own preferences and desire

    and with the clothes thing , its like in porn whan you sarch techer, secretary’s, nurse and so on lol, you want spaciel subject and with certain clothes that arouse you
     
  4. Haberdasher

    Haberdasher Fapstronaut

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    You're a dude. You're supposed to be attracted to women. It's ok. You're not broken. You're normal.

    Now, you gotta channel that energy in a positive direction. Add to your capacity, expand your social circle, gain skills, provide value to others. Earn that rich chick and have passionate consensual mutually beneficial sex. That's the whole point. We are supposed to desire women so we'll improve the world and earn them. It's a brilliant design.

    You'll be ok man. Just harness your nature and direct it towards brilliance. You are a great man. Go get your high fashion woman.
     
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  5. Totally normal. Fashion and allure are designed to trigger this exact reaction.
    Chill. You're a guy responding to the very reasons that fashion has existed for millennia. You good, boo.