Woop woop! I made it to day 90, no Porn and no Masturbation! I feel really pleased with myself for achieving this milestone. I definitely feel much better and more worth-while in myself now that i'm off the Porn. It's hard to quantify but i feel like i don't have any dark secrets i need to be ashamed of any more so i am happier in myself and feel more worth-while as a parson. Looking back i can see that Masturbation combined with Porn really warped me and my sexual desires into something that i wasn't comfortable with. But now at day 90 I feel much more 'normal' (whatever that is). My desire to fap and watch Porn still does flare up occasionally, but it's now very easy to ignore and has been for a long time now, it's as if i can slowly feel the neurons in my head re-aligning to a more wholesome frame of mind where i'm free to enjoy sex without shame or doubt. I still have some way to go though. whilst i have noticed some small improvements in my stamina and technique in bed with my GF, I still leave a lot to be desired on that front so i need to make sure I don't destroy the progress I've made and try get better with time. It still makes me feel rubbish that i'm not able to control my orgasms when i have sex, and makes me feel very adolescent. But at least now i feel like I'm doing everything i can to improve. Hopefully things will continue to get better. If there's anyone out there who is thinking of starting out on a reboot, or if you've just fallen off the wagon from a previous reboot, then i'd encourage you to stick with it. If not for anything else, then the worthwhile sense of achievement and self-betterment you get when you get this far is totally worth it. But i'm not stopping here, i'm taking this thing all the way to at least day 120. Hopefully things will continue to get better for me in the bedroom and i can live up to my own expectations. Thank you NoFap
Dude that is AWESOME! I can't wait to be where you are. Keep it up and stay on the straight path! lol
That's great to hear. If you want more control, you might practice kegel exercises. I think YourBrainOnPorn.com has an FAQ on them, but just google them. Also, take deep breaths during sex, as that slows the ejaculation reflex. And move slowly. Eventually, you'll both feel more that way.
Congrats on your 97 days! Almost a hundred.. damn that's awesome! Keep going my friend. Godspeed. Gideonite