STOP PORN NOW #2- The Other Side

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  1. SaltedPeter

    SaltedPeter Fapstronaut

    STOP PORN NOW #2- The Other Side
    You may have seen my original post below, addressing 45 years of Porn Use
    Here !

    But there is another side we as addicts never see or pretty much don't care about.
    "First I do not work or am associated with NoFap, but I have over 20 years working in the addictions field and am a addict the last 45 years of my life "

    Agree or don't this is the facts as I write this I am a addict for 45 years.
    But you are me, in the making don't kid yourself like I did.

    Your Porn Addiction Actions Help or Directly Cause This:

    1. You are helping create more porn addicts, imagine if every Meth or Heroine addict stopped using for good. The Dealers and Cartels would be out of business the next day. You are helping the industry stay alive and kicking with new souls.
    2. You are either part of/or speak with other porn users, either in forums or websites you engage with them discussing porn, you buy sell trade. They are helping you and you them stay hooked.
    3. You ignore others who would spend time with you to spend time with porn.
    4. Spouses and S/O of a porn user are ten times more apt to suffer from feeling inadequate and ignored then spouses or S/O's of non-porn users.
    5. Startling facts a porn addict will cheat at least once on a S/O or spouse, even no sex is cheating because your desire for it was. So don't kid yourself. If you tried hooking up you cheated sex or not doesn't matter to a porn addict.
    6. Sadly more then half of all porn addicts that are in a relationship will convince their spouse or S/O to join their addiction, its quite disturbing as a porn addict will use the same grooming techniques used by child molesters to get them involved. ( not saying they are one but use similar techniques)
    7. Your S/O has a 1-4 chance of resulting to drugs or alcohol use to deal with your addiction, often isolating and creating their own addictive world.
    8. You all probably know this, but about 50% of porn addicts Marriages result in divorce. ( and its rising )
    9. Children of a porn addicts seem to have low cognitive abilities, this is associated with the destruction of the family unit resulting low test scores and issues in school.
    10. Not surprising, Porn addicts have been found to have theft and porn in common again showing a clear line between those that use Meth/Heroine and Porn with similar actions and life styles.
    11. Women who are with a Porn Addict often knew long before they find out, with the lies and sneaking they pick up something is wrong.
    12. Sexual Orientation shows no absence from the above and appear to be equal proving that Porn Addicts are not a majority in the LBGT community as society would have you believe. The most common is mid 30's White Straight Male yet al are harmed Porn Use has no preference for destruction .

    Unlike my previous post, there is little hope at repairing damage you do to others. Porn reaches out like a spider web covering all aspects of a porn users lives. Your continued use will harm others, if not now then later.
    It is crucial everyone understands, that just because the above addresses a more intimate relationship like those with spouses or S/O, a single not attached porn user is still affecting many many people so if you are single or are justifying use because you are alone. Thats B.S. as you are effecting others by simply viewing porn its self.

    So is their any hope ?
    Making amends, can be done but its often done and leads to the destruction of the relationship as most wont stop until caught, and most will deny it if caught.
    This is why my topics are STOP PORN NOW, as it does not get better only worse.

    So why listen to me? Because most of that list was not just written by me but I lived it for 45 years.
    So I am sure many are wondering do I have any relationships left or not.
    So to that I say, do you have a relationship or not? If You have one STOP PORN NOW,
    if your don't. Well now is the time to STOP PORN NOW.


    As I have said before, you don't want my life I had 45 years.
    All I did to my self and others was my fault because I chose addiction.
    You think you are having a hard time, if you don't STOP PORN NOW you will find
    pain and discomfort you never dreamed of. My own arrogance told me I was smarter then everyone else that used. And thats why I am an addict.

    STOP PORN NOW
     
  2. j_pwc_bat

    j_pwc_bat Fapstronaut

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    Congratulations on 96 days of success of no PMO!
    Great list of all the problems that go with the evil porn addiction.
     
  3. wake_up

    wake_up Fapstronaut

    Hi, that's a nice post and list.
    This one I find quite interesting but you know, the divorce rate is already 50%. So would be really interesting, if the divorce rate is even higher for PMO addicts.
    In general I can agree that this might increase the divorce rate yes. Sounds quite plausible.

    Side facts: I'd say the divorce rate is mainly due to vanishing societal morals and family values and this rampant feminism in the west. Just listen to some very rational mgtow arguments or even to Stefan Molyneux / Jordan Peterson, as they agree as well, that the legislation is totally against men. So yeah, women are more likely to divorce a man, if they profit financially from it.

    Anyway not to distract too much from the topic: This argument is quite good anyway b/c it's super easy to understand (even for dumb people and politicians) and could be used to foment politicians against the porn industry.
     
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  4. 21yearsin

    21yearsin Fapstronaut

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    Wonderful post- Thank you!!
     
  5. Summer Son

    Summer Son Fapstronaut

    Write please, because you are doing it very well.
    Thanks again for this wonderful post!
     
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