Strange feeling of loss/pain/regret, waited too long, girl is not single anymorere

We man are visual creatures. THe first thing we care about when we date a woman is physical appearance. Is the most important feature to us, if we are not attracted to her physically then we are not going to be that interested to dating her o maybe think about her for a relationship later.

Besides that, you don't know her yet. you didn't have a date wwith her and you are thinking about a relationship. The idea of dating is to get to know the other person for several months before getting in a relationship with them.

You were just not that attracted to her, she was average.

Is totally easy to explain. She wasn't good looking for you. She was just average so you were just have low attraction to her.

You are thinking to much ahead. Dating a person is not a commitment to be in a relationship later. You go out to have fun, if things progress to a relationship then great, you are going to date a lot of woman before knowing the rigth one for you. She wasn't in love with you or already interested in be in a relationship with you, she was just interested in you because she was attracted to you. Woman fall in love with time, maybe you go to a date with her and after talking to you for a while she is not more attracted to you and you don't reach the 2nd date.

Yes it is. Most woman/man have a lot of issues to fix before having a healthy relationship. You your is to fix your own issues and date woman that have their shit together, leave behind woman that don't.

You are totally rigth. A smoking hot woman that is toxic can ruin your life.

This is totally normal. When you have a toy to play with but you are not interested in it you leave it behind, but when you see another boy that is playing with it and now you are not able to play with it and you don't have other toys to play, then you get more interest in playing with that toy.. but you cant. We desire more what we cannot have.

Reason tell us that not, but we are human and we react like this because of our emotions.

Is not extrage at all, it's just the first time that happens to you.
Trust me, you are just interested in her because she is now with another guy. When you had her all over you, you didn't want her.
Have patience and wait for a woman that is more than average. Average is boring, dating a woman with a good hart that is over average is amazing. Settleing for an average woman is the worst you can do.

 

The best that happened to you. Now you are free to go after your goals, ambitions and best version of yourselve. With time a woman that is above average is going to show interest in you like this one did. The best version of you, you can achieve, the faster and better woman are going to be attracted to you.