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Succubus Porn Addiction

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Vamandev, Jul 30, 2019.

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  1. Vamandev

    Vamandev Fapstronaut

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    I am fixated on the idea of Succubus.(If don't know please google it) from my very teenage
    I want her as my partner.
    So I am obsessed with the porn types of milf, female domination and succubus.
    Please, someone, help me get out of this situation. I don't want to be like that but I don't know why I am attracted.
    Please suggest the psychology behind it.
    Am I the only one in this situation?
    Help me!
     
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  2. Joe1023

    Joe1023 Fapstronaut

    Well first off, this is an addiction, not just a bad habit, which means we can't expect to drop it like one in a short amount of time. This is absolutely a one-day-at-a-time process, but it CAN be done. It just takes time and a LOT of dedication and hard work. The best tool I've found BY FAR to fight this addiction is the 12 step SA program. The SA website has information on meetings to join; I HIGHLY recommend joining one.
     
  3. For a lot of people, it's based on shock value associated with arousal. So with a succubus, the notion of having one's life force drained in a sexual capacity is the shock value part. Associating it with orgasm makes the brain confused and starts to become aroused by the idea.

    I myself have my own personal fantasies and ideations that were influenced by porn, but I understand that these fantasies aren't reflective of reality, nor should I wish to impose them on the opposite party if I ever found myself in such a situation. For me, it was me desperately clinging to these notions and desires that made rebooting challenging for me, because I desperately wanted to get a replacement for porn (a partner) that would keep lubing up those neural pathways I've built for over a decade. It's tough to let go. But when you understand that this isn't part of your true self, it makes the letting go a lot easier. So it is with rebooting.
     
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  4. Usersamedame

    Usersamedame Fapstronaut

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    can't lie the idea of a succubi coming along to drain me dry sounds hot as hell.
    why? Because we're screwed up with no self worth or respect so a commanding woman might seem amazing because she "wants" us so desperately. Maybe succubi fascination is a reflection of our own inner desperation for love and companionship.
     
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  5. Joe1023

    Joe1023 Fapstronaut

    Addiction to porn/sex is absolutely an issue, but its not THE issue. I can't speak for other addictions, but in my experience, this particular type of addiction almost ALWAYS stems from another huge issue, usually from childhood. In my case, I went through some physical abuse, but a LOT of major emotional abuse, manipulation, and bullying. That is why I have an addiction to porn.
     
  6. Haven't ever been into the full on Domination, or BDSM, Succubus trend.. I am not attracted to it at all actually. I'm actually quite afraid of it and rejective to ever go towards this especially for my spirituality. There's just something about a all black suit that doesn't sit right with me or spandex. There's got to be a ton of people though who are so don't ever feel as if you are alone in this addiction. I'm not sure if this is considered "Domination" but I have Dwelled upon JOI videos which I'm not to happy about.

    First it seems like you are very attracted to this, what I could suggest is a whole lot of prayer and seeking guidance maybe find someone who is struggling just like you and support each other or we can support each other on here.

    Secondly I would definitely install Porn blocker's on you're phone, tablet's, or PC. Yes you can easily get rid of it but listen to you're heart because the fact you posted say's in you're heart that you want to be done and free.
     
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