The 3 Big Takeaways For a Successful Reboot

Alright gents so I have realized three key things the past couple of weeks that is not really talked about here but in coaching sessions everywhere else. These things have given me a new aspect on my life. I have written content on this already but I am going to keep preaching until it spreads like wildfire does in California. So lets say you relapsed today. Okay so what.... STOP BEATING YOURSELF UP BROS. IT DOESNT DO SHIT FOR YOU. IT JUST MAKES YOU FEEL WORSE. Instead of beating yourself up try and focus on the positive. Learn from your mistakes. If you follow these three keys I am sure you will find success.

1. FORGET ABOUT THE PAST AND MOVE ON
You need to move on from the past. If your like me and have been thinking to yourself "Oh why did I do this" or "Why did this certain event happen" is the wrong thought process. Look guys the past is the past. We cant change what we did. So why waste your fucking time thinking about it? When instead you can learn from those mistakes and make yourself a better person. I see so many damn posts talking about the past and being so negative its ridiculous. Focus on the present and aim for your future.

2. ACCEPT YOUR MISTAKES/FORGIVE YOURSELF
Forgiveness is the key to victory. Its a mindset that teaches you that its okay to fail because we are human and are not perfect. Obviously you werent in the right mindset at the time of your past relapses. Accept that you werent and implement change. I had to realize that I fucked up but instead of sitting in my own tears I needed to do something about it. So I came up with a vision and a plan. I accepted my failures and took what I needed from them to be stronger in the future.

3. TAKE RESPONSIBILITY
This is the big one. You need to man the fuck up and take responsibility for your actions. You are the one who got yourself into this addiction and you know it. Stop blaming others when this is your own doing. I mean think about it. How come one day you can say no to temptation easily but the next you cant? That is because of your mindset and you allowing this behavior to happen. Getting the connection yet? Its a hard pill to swallow I get it.

Look I may sound like I am repeating myself and there is a purpose for that. People listen when things are repetative in their minds. So go forth and change your life guys.