the best provoking thought process to help you quit.

I've come across something brilliant but extremely simple thought process that in no way would let me to relapse. I hope it works for you. I have been beating my urge every single time.
You usually need 3 things to quit an addiction.
1)greed: that if you quit this habit, you ll get these benefits
2) bad experiences and fear. : all those bad times you had with this addiction or with any addiction. And fear of further bad stuff happening.
3) love: this is one of the most powerful or probably the most important thing you need. Love.
Don't do it just for you. Do it for your loved ones. Do it for your girlfriend/fiance/wife/children.
Quit this godforsaken addiction for your parents.
For your mother. For your father.
Do they want this to happen to you? Do they get peace by the fact that their son is out there or suffering so much and keeping it hidden.
Would it please them to know that you are suffering and constantly pulling yourself downwards. Think of all the innocent childhood memories you had with them. Your dad, always there for you, to carry you to bed.
Your mom, worried sick, staying up all night for you.
There is a reason we relapse with locked doors and windows in the warmth of the computer screen. We don't understand that our loved ones, our dear parents are rough on us so that we don't take the easy , pleasurable, instant gratification.
Every time you pull out your dick to fap, ask yourself these questions. Do your parents want you to live a life like this? Do they want to think of themselves as bad parents and blame themselves and blame you for not listening to them and keeping this fact hidden from them. We are cheating them and ourselves.
I think of my strict unpleasant dad, for who I am the world to, sitting right in front me whenever I think of typing in those names or fapping.
Let's make our loved ones happy. They don't have to suffer for our actions. And they will sooner or later if we dont stop.I am willing to for anything for them..even die for them. All the withdrawal and the tough times. I'm gonna meditate exercise and have a clean conscience.
Think of all the pornstars and how you have objectified women and how cruel it is and feel sad that they r on the wrong path, suffering. Porn is something that has to be quit. It is officially a social evil. To me at least.
There's no one last time. Let's take responsibility. For their sake. For our loved ones. For your brother. For your sister. For your girlfriend. For your dear parents who are greater than god and let's get that childhood innocence back and live a happy life from this day on.
If you ever truly loved them, then please don't pmo

 

I'm glad it helped somebody.