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The emergence of homosexual desire during withdrawal?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by VicistiGalilaee, Jan 9, 2016.

  1. Jan 9, 2016 #1
    VicistiGalilaee

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    Has anyone else experienced this? I normally think of myself as straight although I do very frequently experience transvestic fetishism or autogynophilia, which is where you become sexually aroused by fantasizing about being a woman.

    I find that I become increasingly "less straight" during withdrawal periods, and I switch entirely from thinking about having sex with women, and begin to have either transvestic fantasies or frankly homoerotic tendencies in which I develop the strong desire to have sex with another man. But I only experience outright homosexual desire after long periods of abstaining from porn or masturbation. Can anyone else relate? What could be causing this?
     
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  2. Jan 9, 2016 #2
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    Are you sure you don't have a mild form of HoCD? Because I have it and I had stronger images during withdrawl, but now I'm trying to control it.
     
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  3. Jan 9, 2016 #3
    VicistiGalilaee

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    What is HoCD?
     
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    http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=HOCD

    Don't want to alarm you because you don't seem that case but anyway I would vive a check ;)

    Apart from that I think that if you ade P addicted and escalated it's not that strange to have those fantasies even if you don't have HoCD.
     
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  5. Jan 9, 2016 #5
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    eh, I don't think I'm HoCD. I actually do suffer from severe OCD, but not in areas that have to do with sexual identity. I definitely have homosexual desires at times but it doesn't cause me sexual identity crises. I'm just perplexed as to why these desires would suddenly spike when I abstain from PM
     
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    You don't know how lucky you arte mate cause I'm going through bella right now even through I'm doping better.

    Anyway methink that we have definitely damaged our sexual tastes through PMO. If you think about we passed years watching a performance where both woman and man lead us to orgasm and because of that pur brain started to rewire to associate sexual pleasure not only to the woman but also to the man, that is the main protagonist after all. So it's not that difficult that in this period where all the shit we put in our brain is coming out there are some fantasies of naked men etc.
    For example if I see two photos, One with a naked couple and One with a naked girl, the first arouses me better because the presence of the man reminds me immediatly to the P sexual act.

    And anyway it is normal even for straight guys to have sometimes homo fantasies, but thoughts apre just thoughts my friend.
     
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