There might be a wall at 30 days...

It's better to be a virgin loser than a single parent loser. My friends got laid then they go their stuff and went to live together, then they brake apart and go take care of children alone, with the help from grandparents. This is horrible.

I am a virgin too but I don't feel bad. I'm pursuing my career. Try to make it worth and things will settle down for themselves. And please, get over that woman, the world is full of people and each person is different from another. I think everyone are special on a certain degree. You can find a woman even more awesome, just keep your journey and don't waste time feeling sorry for the past.

PS. I know I don't help much but I answered anyway

 

cheer up man! First of all congrats on making it to almost 30 days, I'm only at 12 today and like you i really haven't had too much of a struggle except in the mornings, but learning...But like you, there's days of no PMO really made me realize something about my past relationships and how much I really do miss her. We're still friends are in contact and see each other(not lately,more on that later) I think PMO pushed me off my emotions, not only for personal things but for other people's emotions. I asked myself where I went wrong with her. now I realize..i was PMOing before, during and after the relationship and I know for sure that lead to her falling out of love with me. I wasn't the man I needed to be for her b/c of my stupid addiction. Looking back I see how drained of energy I was, going to school at the same time, then to make room to really care for a woman? and family? All while being PA and PMOing...something's going to break, and it was our relaltonship. she still sees me as a good friend..and that's all. being said, only now, even this early in reboot I realize my mistake and know how to not make the same in future relationships. your still young, even tho u feel like she was "the only one". With time, effort and NoFap..u will find her..stay strong brother.