This count as a relapse ?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Lawyeronduty, Jan 4, 2018.

  1. Lawyeronduty

    Lawyeronduty Fapstronaut

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    Yesterday when i watched TV i saw a girl who is half-naked and my tennis awake little bit iş this relapse?
     
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  2. Rob_B_

    Rob_B_ Fapstronaut

    Only you can make that call. Your life, your rules.

    In my book, if you're innocently pottering along minding your own business (and for the sake of the argument, let's assume you were) and the media decides to put an image of a half-naked woman in front of you - and I for one am constantly astonished at how much they're determined to do that, everywhere you turn! - then that's hardly your fault. Assuming of course you don't act upon it, and just getting an involuntary twitch in your gentleman parts doesn't count.

    If you were looking for such stuff, or intentionally or recklessly putting yourself in harm's way, that would be different of course. So if the TV channel you were on happened to be an XXX rated one, then you'd have to give yourself at the very least a yellow card warning. Similarly, if you, having come across such images, were to dwell on them, you might have a case to answer.

    So if you ask me, by the facts of the case as they're presented, you're okay. But you really need to ask yourself.
     
  3. I don't think so, I mean it's basically impossible to avoid all kind of triggers, just watching tv and suddenly an ad pop up with a girl in bikini, or you're just watching a netflix series and in one of the episode a girl is doing a shower, how can you possibly know? It's ok being against PMO, you can try to choose something with no triggers in it but you never really know. In my opinion is not a relapse at all if it's happened randomly
     
  4. Lawyeronduty

    Lawyeronduty Fapstronaut

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    But i looked that with my own and i closed it 5-6 seç later .sorry for english
     
  5. Robbiebob

    Robbiebob Fapstronaut

    A relaps... It's a no from me... With a relaps you have to have three things @ play, porn, self pleasure, orgasm, non of those things happened here... Seeing a half naked lady can happen anywere & only natural to be aroused weather lesser or greater extent... Rob
     
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