Thought of the day...your counter

The lustfilled pornaddicted part of you that you embody when you PMO has it's own view of the world and it's own belief system. It doesn't give two shits about this forum and your counter. The problem is that you believe in it and once it takes a hold of you, you won't think of your counter anymore. You won't think of your future. You'll just think "fuck it" and fill your mind with pictures of ass and tits. That's what that monster inside you does.

In the moments when you care about your counter, you are not that monster. In that moment it's in the background of your psyche, waiting. So you can think of a hundred reasons why porn is bad while you're embodying the conscientious part of you, the monster doesn't care. It will just wait for it's time, take a hold of you (because you let it) and you'll see the world through it's eyes until it's done feeding.

How to change that? Stop believing in the monster. Stop thinking that it's a great source of fun. For that you need to understand it through and through and what attracts you to it.

 

So true.

 

Thats right. Thanks!.

 

With that kind of mindset you will end up destroying yourself physically and mentally
because, every time when you'll relapse you'll start to think how "weak" and "worthless" you are and that is not true!
STOP PUTTING NOFAP ON A PEDESTAL!
It's great that you want to quit watching porn and you want to improve your life but even if you relapse that's ok!
remember that with every fall we rise!

 

IT'S NOT.

 

No. I'm here every single day to clear things up. RELAPSING IS NOT OK BY ANY MEANS. It's ok if you are tired of me..i don't care.
I should report you if I'm not kind ...you are basically saying it's ok to do pmo and nofap is not a big deal! When it's a day and night difference .

 

Did you read my whole message or just the part about relapsing?
I'm talking from my own experience in order to prevent people to go through the hell that I went through while all you do is to try to brainwash people.
You feel like reporting me? go ahead bro
I'm here, waiting

 

Believe me..im not a bad guy. I have no interest in making troubles with you for no reason..but the only mindset to succeed in nofap is to realize how horrible porn is and it's not ok at all to watch it. That's what I have to insist on.
Peace .

 

Relapsing is not good. If anyone relapses they DEFINITELY should not binge

 

Never said it's good. You should quote his post not mine.