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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by g2stop, Apr 3, 2018.
Some urges today, so came back here to improve my focus.
Guys, almost volontary relapse last night, but I was able to focus on other stuffs. Didn't edge neither. Feeling weird today, hopefully everything will be ok in a few hours. I should have slept more.
Hey @Amarion remind yourself why you are doing this, there is nothing to gain from relapse even though your addicted brain will be trying to convince you of the opposite, be strong
@Christianteen how’s it going?
Nearly at 2 weeks and feeling good
I know that sudden relapses out of nowhere are possible at this point, so I am very careful to avoid that
It feels good to know that life can be this way, without shame, guilt, pure freedom
I have noticed that at different lengths of nofap, different thoughts and feelings come up. I am good at dealing what comes up upto 2 weeks, but after that some of my deeper issues come up. This is telling me that if I don’t face them I will relapse again. I am determined to face all my demons on this journey as I feel I am now strong and upto the challenge. I have learnt many things from all my previous relapses.
It's going good I'm on day 2. Slow progress but getting there
How are you doing?
Don't worry ! Hopefully I didn't relapse. I was just full erected but I didn't do anything.... Day 5 / 6 I guess, feeling weird but everything is going to be ok tomorrow
I just need to stop constantly relapsed and reach 1 Month :/
I am good, when I get stressed, I feel urges coming along and realise they are just a coping mechanism, and I look to do other things to help me cope
Fantasising about porn, girls etc is a way to escape the reality of what I have to do today. I have a girlfriend so should focus all my sexual energy on her and get on with other stuff I need to do the rest of the time.
Almost 2 weeks
I feel like I am doing well
No morning erections yet, maybe I am in a kind of flatline
I am finding better ways of dealing with stressful situations
Hey guys, I think it would be useful if we posted at least one reason for doing this challenge everyday
Yeah man I agree
Day 3. I'm doing this for God
One more night and I will be on day 14
I have noticed what happens in a relapse.
I feel depressed/anxious/nervous
I look for a way to distract from the emotion
This starts with
Tv then escalates to dating sites
Then to contacting ex girlfriends
Then to fantasising about sex
So far I have been able to keep it at tv without any escalation. But I almost contacted an ex with the thought of sexting, and came here to get rid of that thought.
Finally 14 days, 2 weeks,
I am very happy to have achieved this!
I'm proud of you!