Time to become real men.

I am going strong brother with new beleif,new mindset.It's not NoFap our journey should be reataing our own gold(semen) & face the real challange of real world.

 

Anxiety and brain fog are killing me, man.The result of 10 years of heavy addiction ...I have been fighting since the day I learned SR and Nofap.I went on this journey the day I learned about Nofap.I got rid of everything I don't need, to walk this path.I don't know if I will really recover.But there is something I know...No Sacrifice ,No Victory !

 

Semen is much more than just gold. It's literally our lifeforce. What motivates me is that as I retain my semen, it become high quality semen. Can you imagine when that high quality semen is fertilized with an egg?

That's powerful.

 

You came back .
I will take part too .

They say Winston Churchill got such big balls, that's why he used a cane to move .

 

Agree

 

What's up man, just wanted to say I love this thread and this topic so much. Reading these replys give me strength when I really need it sometimes. I'm currently on a 17 day streak. This streak however is different from any other streak I've ever attempted. I've been practicing for little over a year now and the most I've even been able to accomplish was 15 days. This streak is different because my life is literally depending on it I feel like. I'm an athlete that's on scholarship to play football and I was always the type to start wherever college I went to. I discovered NOfap in 2019. I feel like faping has literally been the reason as to why soon as I got to college my whole life/career flipped upside down. But before I get to that. So The rundown on how I got addicted: I was just 4 years old up late at night watching TV every body sleep. Girls gone wild comes on. My whole world changed. I'd sneak and try to catch it every night. Every since then Ive been promiscuous and seeking out unattainable sexual pleasure. I was in preschool asking the girls to show me their ass and give me kisses. I kidd u not. I started watching soft porn at 7 and about 9 I started watching real porn. I'm 21 years old now. It's ruined so much in my life. I couldn't shoot my shot with this one girl my freshman year in college who I literally thought about everyday. I'd just jackoff to the thought of her in my dark dorm room at 3pm or any time. I've been lost confused and depressed most of my life. But on the outside everybody seen me as the star athlete that fucked girls and had everything going. My dad was in jail my whole life then died when we were starting to get close when he got out. My mother is toxic. It's just been bad. But here recently after I discovered NOfap, it's been giving me purpose. It's been giving me something to genuinely work for. I was in a real dark place. Drugs, sex wit partners that are pretty ugly, drinking alone.. social anxiety.. just terrible. And I was still playing on Saturday and Friday. Now that I've got a grip on this NOfap and truly diving in to it I feel like I've never felt before. My heart doesn't beat fast around ppl anymore or because of an excilerating thought. Woman are just woman now. Not objects that I have to put on an act for just to get pussy. And I'm talking to family more.. I used to never call home I was too ashamed. I encourage all of u to get a grip on this NOfap.. it's changing my life right before my eyes ... I'm a living testimony. I'm shooting for 90. Then imma go beyond that.

 

Don't let it die .
I am interested in views and to share experiences .
Let's work this thread out .

 

Reason why I hide my counter . I don't care .

Deep thoughts . That's why we got to do this .

And that is a man prospective , imagine being a woman in the same line of thoughts . Working ''being sexy'' .

You cannot, literally, sell something if it ain't a ''quick fix'' and a lie . Everybody shut from the long sustainable way, everybody on the shortcut . And .. it doesn't last .

Effort is sacrifices . Life nowadays is soft .

 

Turn up .
Let's go .

 

There should be a required course in all high school for the boys to learn on how to become better men (like know how to fix a flat tire, etc). Right now, as an example, my friend doesn't know how to fix a tire. So he has to call a tow to get his car to be at a mechanic for ONE REASON. He does not know how to fix a tire. this is why as MEN we need to know those skills. It's part of being a MAN.

Ask yourself:

Do you know how to do your taxes on your own?
Do you know hot to fix your car?
Do you know how to invest and budget?
Do you know how to be debt-free?
Do you know how to date women?

Those are but few of the questions that every man need to know.

 

Ya true.
Schools are hardly staying “Educational Institutes”. But that’s a topic for another thread...

 

There is nothing wrong with this.

It's the standards that need to be fixed.

 

I was thinking also on this and had a good talk with my friend. He's a man too.

We men all have testicles and dick. Isn't this enough to be a MAN? Is masculinity something that's naturally acquired to us or is this something we need to learn in order to become MEN?

What exactly makes you be a MAN? Obviously one of the requirements is to have balls and a dick. I think natural masculine energy is what really makes you be a MAN. This is important because as men, our jobs are to make women be comfortable into her femininity. When women are comfortable leaning into her femininity, she naturally gravitate toward men who are masculine.

If the female has masculine qualities, she'll clash with the masculine man. that's why it cannot work if two people have same polarity. One must have the opposing polarity.

 

Let's look inside us and end there . No standards, but us .