I (22M) have a double whammy here because in the last year and a half my porn addiction escalated into an escort addiction. So I'm on 18 days PMO free hardmode... After the first week and a half, the urges to see the latest porn disappeared. Now I've got urges to see an escort. There's one who I first saw a year ago. Last time I saw her was august. Saw her about 3 times. When I go I fuck her then did degrading femdom shit. Man I felt awful after...and what made it weirder was she was 10 years older than me, it felt strange. I have reoccurring urges and daydreams to go see her again. It's interesting how porn addiction escalated. I will continue to resist the urges, but I'm a bit disappointed in my PMO addicted mind that it wants to go BACK to this humiliating experience and get degraded IRL again.
That sounds scary. You defo need to do a proper reboot. Take into account that it may need up to 2 years.
you need to decied for yourself. I personally will not quit O because I think its a good part of my life.
Escorts can be a problem, but I was referring more specifically to the femdom thing with older women and the PMO addiction.
It's not just with older women, but younger ones too. Femdom is a huge problem but i can feel its grip loosening.