Watching the woman you want get f by another man should be your BIGGEST TURN OFF, not your TURN ON.

Again if u r so hungry & seeing someone eating best food frenzy, guess not to feel full stomach by standing beside him or watching a movie of him eating, however ur saliva will drool
U should move ur as* go buy something to eat.
The idea worth to think in it positively not to keep argue or deny...

 

Just wanted to point out here that from a neuroscientific standpoint there is a huge difference between the two situations. The couple situation implies empathy. Empathy isn't the same as arousal. Empathy is driven by the neocortex in the brain while lust and fantasy about sex are very much driven by the primal brain. Empathy can't develop into addiction the way lust can. Seeing someone eating a meal leans more towards instincts and activation of the primal brain, but still isn't the same. Lust will literally bathe the brain's striatum in a soup of potent excitatory neurotransmitters. Seeing someone eating a burger or whatever won't. Not to that extent. Drooling over a hamburger won't cause hypofrontality (reduced bloodflow to the prefrontal cortex). Seeing hardcore pornography will cause hypofrontality and redirect most of the brain's energy towards the striatum. In other words you can't f*ck up your brain feeling good for a couple or eating one too many hamburgers. Overdoing it on porn and masturbation on the other hand will cause neurological damage. Too frequent hyperstimulation of neurons, as rest assured is the case with porn addiction, will kill or shut off neurons over time. A neuron that is part of the CNS cannot recover from overstimulation and neuronal death. This is why so many porn addicts end up with withdrawal induced anxiety disorders and episodes of clinical depression. The rewiring theory is 100% real. There is no if or can anymore. Science is catching up quickly and it won't be long before society will be done sugarcoating masturbating to porn.

To illustrate the above, see:

 

thank you for your explanation! will look into it. I read in You brain on porn that 90 days is the minimum off porn to rewire the brain, do you know how long it will take for someone PMO ing like 4 times a week for 15 years?

 

Im in same boots as you
Same no of years, but more frequently
I guess we need more time
We"ve been intoxicated.......