Wet Dreams = Sign of Progress

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Golgo 13, Jan 25, 2016.

  1. Golgo 13

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    Wet dreams may be annoying, but they aren't a relapse. In fact they are the opposite, progress. Its a sign that your body is flushing out old PMO habits and replacing them with natural ones (dreams). Soon you will have no wet dreams at all.

    But remember wet dreams should not be feared, for they are a sign of progress.
     
  2. buzzlightyear

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    Hey @Golgo 13,

    I like your insight, I really like your goal "Get my life on track before I turn 21"
    I'm turning 20 this year so yeah I feel like we got that in common too.

    I admit to have feared them sometimes, the thought of losing semen or the dreams that can have a huge impact on your sexual calm. If you ever need someting/ want to share & relate situation. feel free to ask anytime.

    Best wishes,

    Buzz, Peasant
    in honor of operation F.S.
     
  3. I want to agree. (I recently had two wet dreams within four days, and one a couple weeks earlier.) However, I have noticed that during my reboot (I'm on day 18 now), these dreams have been dreams about watching porn. It seems that as I haven't been watching porn for a while, my brain simulates the act of watching porn, in the dreams.

    I figure that if this is the case, then it's probably just slowing the rebooting process down when I have one of these dreams, as it prolongs the adjustment to a porn-free life.
     
  4. Ikindaknew

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    Dude, can we swap dreams? First off I haven't had a wet dream in 25 years. Also, I dream about NoFap, about posting on here, about not touching myself, and I swear I got a woody that sticks around all night for the last two nights...
     
  5. Haha, that's crazy. Well, consider yourself lucky. My dreams always cut off at the good part and often leave me craving more. It bothers me for the rest of the day. It's like my brain says, "fine, you ejaculated, now wake up." :mad:

    I'd prefer not to have them.
     
  6. Ikindaknew

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    Actually, my only wet dream experience was traumatizing.... I was dreaming about my mom having an O...then it happened. I woke up NOT AMUSED. :oops: Like the sick basta that I was, every time my parents were making out, I was listening to the door by keeping my ear to the ground....they were in the next bedroom over.
    I knew the drill...mom and dad were watching porn flicks in the living room at around 1130 at night. I knew the next move in the sequence...go figure.
    Later, I found the VHS tapes..this is how it all started with the commercial stuff...
     
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  7. ChristoX8

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    God, you guys make me want to have a wet dream so bad. XD I remember when I was PMOing, I tried to learn how to have lucid dreams so I could f*** girls in my dreams! loll Sadly, it never worked. I'm on day 11 or 12 (I forgot) and still haven't had a wet dream. I had one sexual dream but that was it. Oh well, my time will come, gotta be patient...
     
  8. Ye I've not had one since I was in puberty. I don't think a wet dream is a relapse it's definitely a sign that things are getting back to normal. Hoping mine are on the way.
     
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  9. cud

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    Philosophers say that you should not bother with things you have no control of. I guess wet dreams are those things we cannot (most of the times) control. Dont bother with it - it is a part of a process.

    I have to admit I stopped like two these sexual dreams already.. but mostly i just wake up and it is there. I have it not so common as previously though :)

    Keep up!
     
  10. Philosophers are wise @cud
     
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  11. ChristoX8

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    I never had one... but yeah, definetely. A wet dream is definetely NOT a relapse.
     
  12. Just to clarify:

    Wet dreams kinda suck. :D They're unsatisfying beyond belief (at least the ones I've had). The only part that's not unsatisfying is the ejaculation, and I don't even want that.
     
  13. Golgo 13

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    No doubt they suck. I feel terrible after, but usually by the end of the day I'm back to normal.

    My dream last night: I was in prison. I killed a guy by smearing his face agaist the concrete until there was nothing but bone. Two guys came up to me, they were pissed, one of them drew a pistol and I rushed him and tried to grab it out of his hand. The other guy shot me in my chest and I think I died shortly after.
    Then I remember I was a little girl, who was about to be raped by her father. He decided not to rape me and we drove in the car - I forgot what happened but...
    Next I was myself again, I was with a girl and two of my friends. We were in some type of school. We were walking her to her class. When she went to class, I had a vision that she was some kind of monster that would kill me. My friends noticed it too. One of my friends left the school, the other stayed. When she got out of class she asked my friend if he could walk her to the woods. He agreed. I wanted to get with this girl so I was like "wait up". When we walked down the hallway she would recruit more and more guys to walk with her to the woods. One time she kissed a guy which made me jealous. So when we go to the end of the hallway I stepped in front of the door and told her "I'm not going with you to the woods until you give me a blowjob." She said "No". So I left, and then she started giving all the rest of the guys handjobs w/ paint on her hand! I was like 'fuck no' went up to her and said "suck my dick bitch" LMFAO and I jizzed soon after.
    Then I remember the two guys who killed me before. They were living with me. I went down stairs to get a knife and kill them, but they left in time. Then they came back and rang the doorbell. I went upstairs and told my mom to get the guns. She said no. I was like "I got shot by these guys, GET THE FUCKING GUNS!"

    Then I woke up
     
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  14. I'm sure you're right. It's not satisfaction I'm hoping for, it's the sign that I'm back to normal and that my body isn't expecting me to PMO.
     
  15. ChristoX8

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    LMFAO, that's so fu**** up!! Even more than that time I was kissing a girl in my dream but suddently, I notice it was one of my cousin and I started yelling ''BWAAAAAAHHH!1!'' with Hank Hill's voice. XDD
     
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  16. PyroFighter

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    Wet dreams are a sign of progress but they can catch us off guard. I have had some but they usually leave me feeling weird and unsatisfying. Emotions of guilt and confusion outweigh any pleasure at least for me. When I wake up, I have remember to not dwell on them.

    Keep Fighting!

    Nameless Solider PyroFighter with a fading soul in honor of Operation Fallen Soul.