Actually I ask myself, what is an high standard? Cause many womens in Porn don’t got an operation and are all natural. So it means there are womans that are that beautiful and real. Is that a high standard or normal, for man and woman? Or do many people say it is a high stanard cause they can’t reach the standard?
wouldn't say bloody high.. It's like they live by cliché.. I mean a woman who don't tell me what to do and things like these.. To me sounds like cliché.. with no offense for nobody of course bc everybody has his standards and I won't tell nothing against them.. But they are not for me.. just that is asking something without giving anything.. I mean you want a supermodel? Be yourself a supermodel or rich.. It's not the best advice in the world but it's like the world works.. You can't say that you want a woman always faithful and no party girl if you, instead, are just a man that drool over everything with a skirt.. Everyone got what he deserves I think
yea i agree don't change who you are for anybody, do it for yourself if you agree or if its the moral thing to do.
not all of them are standards to be fair and i'm sure i left out some things but i stick by this list. i'm sure there is woman who want the same
I think all of your standards are reasonable, and they are things I would want (and have found) in a relationship as well. I think sometimes people think you're "judging" or something, but the thing is, romantic relationships are discriminatory. Most people who want to find a partner in marriage, are not going to just be okay with dating any old person. You have to have standards.
I’ve been following this thread. Interesting inputs, can’t say I agree with everything. For me at 51, my “list” is a helluva lot shorter now than when I was in my 20’s. I think we have lots of unrealistic expectations when we’re young. It’s my observation that when I was younger the list was more about what the person can do for me. As I’ve gotten older that list is more about how we can help each other mature and enjoy life together. My list isn’t so selfishly based anymore.
I have in the past. Dated briefly one gal I met on a site. But my conclusion about dating sites is, let's just say, negative. I'm working on not being such a recluse: I'm starting to get off my ass, get out to public get togethers, and meet really people. But hey, I'm derailing the thread. I don't want to end up on anyone's ignore list!
I think some of them are acceptable and others are worrying. But you might change and want different things in a woman when you're older. The things I wanted in a woman in my 20's are not the things I want now. Pretty sure if I had gotten married in my 20's I'd be divorced by now.