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What if theres no sex before or after NoFap?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by MrFabu, Apr 8, 2020.

  1. MrFabu

    MrFabu Fapstronaut

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    Hello Friends =)).
    Many of u if not all has a goal to feel the real pleasure of orgasm with his partner instead of his hand !
    And yea thats a great motivation for him. But Not me !
    I am virgin and dont have at all any real sexual contatct and I wont have untill at least 2 yrs from now !
    Anyone here in this situation? How is the life after breaking this PMO cycle? Maybe our body will find his natural way on keeping on untill we fiinally find our choosed girl!
    Is there any ppl managed to keep on their lives without PMO and real sex as well if that isnt an option?
     
  2. May I ask how you are so sure of this?
     
  3. MrFabu

    MrFabu Fapstronaut

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    Because I can't marry untill 2 yrs from now at least. And We cant have sex before marriage In Islam.
     
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  4. Ok, sorry if I asked but you know sometimes you met here people that just complain, you know "I won't have sex because women care only about your money" or the same old bullshit.
    You're doing for faith, I respect it.
    Anyway now that I know that you're asking a serious question, let me tell you what I am doing.
    I am not doing it for faith, but we are in the same situation.
    I am managing it, rn sex is not an option for me, but you can survive easily, it's not impossible.
    You will have hard times of course because you're doing it hardmode, but you will also experience some benefits before you will marry.
    For example, you will have a clear mind.
    If you watched too much P on screen, abstaining will give you back bright eyes.
    And most important you will have more energies, energies that you can use for something else, like an hobby, or work
    Up to you to decide
     
  5. you will get :

    more energy
    clear mind
    social intelligence
    you won't see girls as objects anymore but as human being
    you will be detached from the results
    you'll be less in your head but more in the present moment

    that's the main benefits i can share with you after 2 years of nofap. But it's not a magic pill. You also have to replace your bad habits with good ones like working out, eating healthy etc. It's a process. You will have to be patient and keep going no matter your mental state and the failures.

    Take care :)
     
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  6. p1n1983

    p1n1983 Fapstronaut

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    Isn´t porn against your religion too?
     
  7. MrFabu

    MrFabu Fapstronaut

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    Thats Ok, My friend.
    yes you are right. I also thinked about that. Choosing a wife while Im Porn Addict will just make me more miserable.
    Thanks for ur care: ))
    Thats true. and actually thats why I joined this hard journey.
    Dopamine is needed to be normally adjusted by normal things like Talking with a friend or doing a big achievement
    and of course I'm not in this planet to just being rewarded by setting in front of Laptop and fapping
    Yea thats why Im here to recover.
    the 15th years old boy was just curious : ))
     

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