When Can I have real sex again??

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by nopenotdoinit!, Oct 12, 2014.

  1. nopenotdoinit!

    nopenotdoinit! Fapstronaut

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    Real sex? I would love to. Can I? Not for a while.


    Hello everyone. Just some quick background information before I ask you guys the really important question. I'm 24 years old and I have been on this reboot for a month and 20 days. It has been going amazingly, except for one thing. I have no choice but to accept the challenge in HARD MODE. I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to have sex with a few girls I know who are down, one in particular who really wants to have sex with me, but I cannot because I have porn induced ED. I have had porn induced Ed for about three years now and let me tell you; it sucks. Real bad. I only had sex with two at girlfriends (at the time). One literally being penetration and then I just got soft inside her and the other one being good sex but with a not completely full erection almost every time. Countless other times with several other girls have I tried getting hand jobs, bjs and intercourse and it just barely gets hard, if at all. So I joined this forum and have been battling for almost a full year now, each time making more and more progress. I am finally becoming really good at resisting my urges and not even viewing porn. I am almost positive I will make my 90 day goal this time and even surpass it, because I am so sick of not being able to have an erection with a girl.

    My only concern is how soon will I be able to get hard enough to have sex or even receive a hand job with a hard on? I'm not a shallow guy, but this really is important to me. Every time I connect with a girl and she wants get physical, I can't. And I'm so sick of it. I want it so bad I can taste it, thats why I will complete this 90 day challenge. I just don't know when regular, full erections and climaxing will occur with a real female. Will it be before the 90 days is over? Or way after it.

    Please enlighten me on my situation or post here if you have similar feelings or anything. It just good to hear different viewpoints from you guys (and gals). Thanks so much.
     
  2. Sonu1983

    Sonu1983 Fapstronaut

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    dear i think it will take atleast 90 days of hardmode to get complete erection. and also it differs for every people and on his pmoing duration or condition. from last few days i m also getting hard desire but this time its not for pmo its for some real fuck. but still i m waiting to get more power in me. i already feel my balls fill with yoghurt. but its better to give some extra time. be patience.