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Why are you doing this?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by BeFree33, Feb 25, 2020.

The Only Way to Succeed is to hit rock bottom.

  1. True Dat.

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  2. Nah, ain't gotta be like that.

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  1. Feb 25, 2020 #1
    BeFree33

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    Need advice. I have relapsed countless times this month.. And recently I'm struggling to feel guilt. Guilt is what motivates me. Now I just accept this lifestyle. I have been in the processing of quitting for three years now.. I have good streaks in the past.. but recently I can't go further than three weeks. I always FORGET why Im doing this. The only way I usually get the motivation to go for a long period... is to go on a PMO binge of many, many hours watching F**ed up shit. Then and only then do I wake up and change, but I don't want to that now. How do you guys find the motivation? What are you're reasons for doing this?
     
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  2. Feb 26, 2020 #2
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    For me it was the desire of changing my life, I mean I was a total failure and a perv like 1 year ago. I was like a zombie that watched weird P and did nothing for his life(No work, No studying). So everytime I've an urge I just think "Do you know that this single time you watch again that kind of P can lead you to the person you were?".
    And I stop. It's not about guilt, you will not succeed with that, you will just suffer. It's about you suffering now to get something greater in the future.
    So the question is: What is that something greater you want to achieve?
     
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  3. Feb 27, 2020 #3
    AscendingBorborite

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    Energy consuming, pointless, guilt ridden, disloyal (if you have a more traditionally minded partner), habit.
     
    AscendingBorborite, Feb 27, 2020
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  4. Feb 27, 2020 #4
    Fallacious D

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    I understand where you are coming from, and I have thought the same way in the past. However, I don't believe in binging in order to make yourself feel like shit so that you start NoFap again. Because at the end of the day, you are still depending on porn. You're at 9 days, so the worst of the withdrawal is hopefully over. Just keep going man.
     
    Fallacious D, Feb 27, 2020
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