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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Quitterrr, Aug 10, 2020.

  1. Quitterrr

    Quitterrr Fapstronaut

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    It's.been.over.5.months.why.the.fuck.do.i.still.get.fucked.up.urges.that.last.hours?

    Fr I can't stop getting urges, when the fuck will I heal, WHEN THE FUCK??? IM GOING INSANE, WHY THE FUCK AM I STILL GETTING STRONG URGES THAT LAST FUCKING HOURS, I JUST WANT TO QUIT,THE AMOUNT OF URGES THAT IVE HAD TO RESIST TO REACH HERE IS UNCOUNTABLE, WHY AM I IN AN URGE THAT STARTED 4 FUCKING HOURS AGOOO
     
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  2. Relax bro. Just don't give in.
     
  3. make sure you are not exposed to any provocative material like Instagram, Youtube, Netflix or any staff you have associated with your porn consumption. Remember that urges pass, you just have to resist and hold your ground and everything will resolve. just trust the process and stay strong. I highly encourage you to get outside if you can, meet up with friends, tell someone you trust that you are going through hard times and hold them accountable to keep an eye on you. You have reached so far dude. Good luck.
     
  4. Jesus, you scared me for a second! I let out an audible sigh followed by "...ooooooh nooo". I thought you had relapsed.

    Thankfully, I'm not too late.

    You should not be resisting urges for hours, it's honestly baffling that you could manage it so well. Whenever you feel the beginning of an urge, do like @Thecolonel said and go outside, get away from the internet, Instagram, etc. all this trash. Take a walk. By doing that when an urge hits, you'll be telling your brain "hey, instead of porn, how about this?". Over time, your urges will diminish. You just have to be patient, it's not a quick battle.

    You're very inspiring, honestly. Keep going, I believe in you!
     
  5. cartmandaz221

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    im so fking jealous that you still have urge, you have something others dream about, be happy
     
  6. Quitterrr

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    Thank you all for your replies, this was just 2 am and I was in a middle of an urge and just went crazy when I saw that I was on day 163, cuz it's looked like it was day 3, thank you all for your support, I will never give in I swear, it's just dejecting to still get urges when you've already resisted more than enough to quit,thank you all for your support, and @khabastos, don't worry, I will never give in, I was just mad to still get urges that last hours 5 months later, goodbye!
     
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  7. Mateo89

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    Its simple. go have sex.

    Mateo
     
  8. Quitterrr

    Quitterrr Fapstronaut

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    It's not simple

    I'm 14
     
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  9. StonePlacidity

    StonePlacidity Fapstronaut

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    Lol, if you're Austrian then good for you
     
  10. Quitterrr

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    Also @khabastos, I've read most places that addictions never end, well I'm ok that I get urges for the rest of my life as long as they're not strong, will they get gradually weaker for me or did I quit and am basically screwed?
     
  11. Quitterrr

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    Well, I'm a Muslim, can't have sex before marriage :cool::emoji_flag_eg:
     
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  12. StonePlacidity

    StonePlacidity Fapstronaut

    That's a bit sad :oops::rolleyes:
    The urges are still here because you haven't really forgot about PMO and still value it (somehow). It is a long journey, a difficult one indeed. Monks don't get urges because they're already on the next level, the level of not even caring about PMO and disgusted by the thought of it.
     
  13. Quitterrr

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    Bruh.. I don't "value" it, I despise it, I just want to quit, trust me if I didn't get urges about porn I would've forgot that I was addicted, I don't secretly fantasize or shit, I hate porn and wanna do anything that stops me from remembering it, idk why I'm still getting such urges
     
  14. Yes, the urges will get weaker, especially once you start getting intimate with women. You'll be able to channel that energy into real life interactions. Besides, I remember how horny I used to be when I was 14, it gets easier when you're older.
     
  15. Quitterrr

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    Intimate with a woman? Well I guess I'm gonna have to die (btw I'm feeling amazing now, ILY man)
     
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  16. Hey respect! in this age i was jerking off like hell! everyday more times!
    keep strong!
     
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  17. HAHAHA let us see you say that when you turn 18 ;)

    Glad I was able to help man. I'm not that much older than you, just enough to have more experience but also young enough to remember what it was like. As annoying as it sounds, have patience! Stay strong and amazing!
     
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