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Woman In My Building Is Tempting Me...Need Some Support Here, Guys...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by 07.23.13, Jul 27, 2013.

  1. Jul 27, 2013 #1
    07.23.13

    07.23.13 Guest

    I'm 4 days into my journey but got extremely tempted to act-out earlier this afternoon when I ran into the woman who lives in the apartment directly above me. She's 61 but looks amazing for her age. (I'm almost 46) I have flirted with her very openly in the past, told her how attractive she was, but never made a move because I fear the implications of becoming sexually involved with someone I can potentially run into every single day. She was wearing a very low cut shirt with A LOT of cleavage hanging out and I basically developed a raging erection. If I didn't have my daughter this weekend I think I would have tried to get her into bed for the first time.

    Has anyone else found themselves in such a situation? If so, what did you do to diminish the temptation? I honestly just want to knock on her door and proceed to seduce her.
     
    07.23.13, Jul 27, 2013
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  2. Jul 29, 2013 #2
    jb18938

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    Hey there. I just had that happen to me today. There was a very nice woman in the room I was in, and she obviously doesn't know of my issues but her outfit and behavior was killing me. I have a very intense foot fetish and just 3 days into my challenge I saw her...perfect feet, sexy shoes, long legs, everything that sends me down a bad path. It made me think...I hope something is more fun than what I used to do, be wise right now it really sucks not being able to act on it in some way.
     
    jb18938, Jul 29, 2013
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  3. Jan 28, 2015 #3
    satori9

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    Hey, this sounds like quite the predicament! I would say its important not to beat yourself up or make the natural urges more important than they actually are. If you are fighting, in a way you are giving these feelings some real power. What works for me is to just accept and acknowledge the feelings, and then find a distraction quickly. Hope this helps!
     
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  4. Jan 28, 2015 #4
    argh

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    Eeek!

    Is there some (odd) way you can sabotage it?

    Moving out is a bit drastic, and hooking them up with someone else isn't realistic - but what about ruining your chances somehow without too much collateral damage
     
    argh, Jan 28, 2015
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  5. Jan 28, 2015 #5
    heartpower

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    Take a cold shower, go for a walk and get some ice cream. Do things that will cool you down.
     
    heartpower, Jan 28, 2015
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