My EX noticed positive changes on me...and i told her its because i dd sumthin hard and hectic which involved an active and supportive online forum...shud i reveal that i joined NoFap or its wiser to keep it to myself?...just to add that mystery effect...coz hey,women EAT that mystery ish UP!!!
my ex knows, she recommended me this forum because she felt i had an addiction which i had to finally realize i do. we are in a tough situation because we just moved to a new state and live together but she recently broke up with me because i kept hiding porn from her, i was stupid and thought i could quit by myself and stop watching porn completely when we moved here. i was able to stop since last year and since we moved here but she eventually found out i was watching porn last year, shes able to check the sites i go to on my phone and my laptop which is a good thing because i shouldnt be hiding anything from her in the first place and of course she dosnt trust me at all anymore and its all my fault. we are still friends and living together but im still doing this for her, not just her im doing this for myself too but i do want her back and i will quit porn or so help me i will throw myself in jail if i dont quit, it has done nothing but ruin my life. i dont know if you want your ex back? if u do u should tell her, any man quitting porn is the perfect man for a woman and she might want you back if you told her, she would be proud of you. some girls out there pretend its ok for their boyfriends to watch porn or they know their boyfriend is watching porn but just pretend they dont see it, but i truly believe deep down inside all females absolutely hate the fact their boyfriends watch porn. they prob just love their boyfriends so much they play a blind eye to it and think well at least he is not actually cheating on me, but i believe it still hurts all females when they know their man is watching porn. and also the fact females think its normal for every man to watch porn and its ok coz all men do it, but porn has fucked every man up and relationships would be so much healthier, romantic, and loving if every man stopped watching porn. this is why the divorce rate has gone up too
Only you can know what is right in this situation, but my recommendation is to tell her if you are interested in getting back together with her. Honesty is the only way to maintain a relationship.
