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WTF...I feel asexual now...is this normal?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by ss91, Dec 18, 2014.

  1. ss91

    ss91 Fapstronaut

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    so im in the beginning of my reboot...

    and what I can say is I feel completely asexual right now...like I dont feel the urge to get with a girl.
    i dont mind too much because obviously its not making it hard to stay away from PMO'ing..

    basically my libido is like completely gone..and I'm only 23... feels like i can live the rest of my life as a monk now.

    has anyone else experienced this?
     
  2. ss91

    ss91 Fapstronaut

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    well i dont mind right now since im not in a relationship...i'm just worried that what if i do find a great girl and my feeling of "asexualness" is still there..you know what i mean.
     
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  3. Monster Carrot

    Monster Carrot Fapstronaut

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    I absolutely know what you feel like. All my PMO days left me kind of uninterested in sex, even after I got married. Unfortunately it might be harmful to relationships this way but if you aren't currently in one, it's not much of a concern. However, like someone above said, I guarantee if you wait long enough, it will return eventually.

    That said, I don't see anything wrong with being someone who has less of a sexual need than other "normal" people. You can be very happy as a monk, and you can use your spare time to master some martial arts. :)
     
  4. purity

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    Ya, keep your eyes open mate. When the tsunami is far off the water seems still. Just because the water is still, does not mean the big one is already forming, on its' way to shore. Stay vigilant bro, I guarantee you once you have a spike of libido, could take months, could take a year, but once that baby hits shore, you damn sure ain't going to be comparing yourself to a monk...lol. Monks cultivate very intensely everyday, and it takes them years to transcend sexual desire.

    Don't let this feeling go to your head or anything, but it is good that you aren't having urges, that means you probably have a solid regimen in place, or your lifestyle is good. But don't think your sexuality has gone away, like a crouching tiger, hidden dragon, it's still there..

    Keep up the good work mate.
     
    Last edited: Dec 18, 2014
  5. heyitshannes

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    Like purity said, stay vigilant. I've had times where I was not interested in sex at all, only to relapse the first day it returned.
     
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