Hang on, friend! You post a lot on here, and you're kinda an inspiration for me. Fight the urges, like I failed to do earlier today :/ I know your pain, weekends are hard for me, too. When I have work in the week, I'm golden. But when I have free time, ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh not so much. I believe in you. I want to see you beat this challenge.
You know, I'm curious; do you all find it more helpful to focus on the endgame, the 90 days/forever without PMO? Or do you prefer to think of the little challenges, the 7 days and single days and such? Let me know. I'm wondering if I should recalibrate the way I'm looking at my situation.
thanks man, Ive been finding it very helpful to get on here when I have urges of going to porn websites. I havent installed any porn blockers, I get on here or videos on nap fap on utube.
Day 3 just about over. Small urge, but a bigger urge to drink and gamble after my shift. (I tend bar in Las Vegas). Denied all 3. I win, bitch-ass, beta-brain.
Day 2 complete! I made love to my wife today, totally in the present moment. It was excellent and in no way did it affect my goals which are to stop PM for 7 days. Onwards and upwards!
for me, to be honest, i never really think about '90 days/forever' since thinking too much sometimes frustrate me, i masturbate since i was in elementary school and sometimes i think there's no way i will be able to stop PMO forever, so rather than stressing out thinking about my life, i prefer doing something that i know for sure have chances of success....
5/7 was home the whole day doing school work. in the evenings watched cartoons,soccer and played video games. am balancing my study life with having fun so that i dont get bored or stressed (they maybe triggers ).
Day 5: I keep up so far. Everytime a bad thought come to my mind, I breathe deeply, shake my head and keep doing what I was just doing. Stay focus guys, we'll make it
Day 7. Challenge completed.. Looks like I need to move on to the next challenge to build on my success so far. Thank you for maintaining these challenges @2525
Starting up again. Difficult to maintain without a challenge. No PM for 7 days. About living in moment and enjoying life.
