Absolutely!.. Do not give up!.. i find that urges come in waves or phases, and they pass. You have to ride out the tough periods but they don't last forever, they phase out to easier periods. You can do it..
Day one for me ! I know today and tomorrow won't be so hard. But by number five it's like.... Can't figure out to explain it jet. Let's just say. Whatever it is it gets crazy stronger inside my mind. Alot of imagen of sex come to mind. I want to get over the homp . People here say that it will get better. Right?!
Yes it will get better. Stay strong and think about why you wanns stop and what harm this addiction has done to your life. See and feel yourself being rid of this addiction. You gotta imagine what it will feel like in 20 day 30 day 60 days 90 days without pmo and see yourself already at your goal. Once you get your head around this conzept and have a strong desision made to get away from this addiction the rest is an easy ride with a few bumpy days in between. Stay strong and dont give up
Day 14/90. Today's objectives are academic, and if all goes well I'll celebrate with some biking (provided the weather permits it). Stay strong everyone!
@Foxislander I respect that in your view hard PMO is the only way, you have made this very clear over many posts now. But please allow others to tackle their own challenges and goals (whatever they may be). Whilst i too agree on an all out hard abstinence, i do not feel i am outright right and others who do not agree with this line of thought are outright wrong. I only feel that we are all fighting to be better men and all come here for the support required in that endeavour. Please respect others views and choices in the same way that yours are respected.
81 of 184 just got through snuggling on my wife got a boner that was number 7 boner last night I did that too cuz it makes it feel like things are working but now I feel kind of guilty my wife was okay with it though and there was no action
Common, Let's get a streak going here!! I'm also struggling to get a streak. I think once we get past 14 days, it will be smoother sailing!
27/30 27/90 Yesterday is one of the closest days I've had to relapsing. Being extremely sleep deprived and physically exhausted is a recipe for falling. Hopefully I can pick myself back up and keep going today.