Had sex after 77-days streak and came immediately

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by LetsLeaveThisBehind, Dec 16, 2019.

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  1. LetsLeaveThisBehind

    LetsLeaveThisBehind New Fapstronaut

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    Hi,
    I’m trying to keep this story short. After a couple of attempts with Nofap I just completed a 77-days streak without PMO. I broke the streak having sex with a hot girl of my university (Yes, Nofap worked for me :D) But I felt pretty embarrassed because I ejaculated after 1 Minute into sex... I will continue to see her but I don’t want to cum so fast. Many people in the internet recommend to masturbate a day or a few hours before having sex in order to last longer. Is this approved by Nofap? I don’t want to get back to MO (I wouldn’t use porn), but I don’t want to cum too early neither. Thanks for your help!
     
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  2. ADN85

    ADN85 Fapstronaut

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    Lucky you, congrats man! Dont start desensualising yourself, would be my advice. Instead, to last longer, distract yourself with non-sexual thoughts... plan your day tomorrow or whatever, while you have sex. With time, you wont need to do it - but if you start fapping, you know how long the road to recovery might be, and that would put you in a much worse situation than O’ing fast.
     
  3. LetsLeaveThisBehind

    LetsLeaveThisBehind New Fapstronaut

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    Alright, thanks for your advice! Appreciate it
     
  4. SuperiorMan95

    SuperiorMan95 Fapstronaut

    I've had the same issue. I would look for alternative ways to last longer than to do the very thing that has kept you a slave for so long (PMO). Also, just tell her "I have not had sex in a while so I'm very sensitive". Then just tell her that you would rather do more foreplay and/or that you want to go very slow. She should understand as long as you give her good foreplay.
     
  5. LetsLeaveThisBehind

    LetsLeaveThisBehind New Fapstronaut

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    Yeah I already told her about it. Sounds like a good thing. I’ll better focus on other ways to last longer then. Thanks for your help!
     
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  6. Akanni

    Akanni Fapstronaut

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    Can masturbating to porn cause one to acquire premature ejaculation? Because I have been searching online and I can't find any satisfactory answer
     
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  7. martintheman123

    martintheman123 Fapstronaut

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    How about going back to foreplay for 5-10 minutes and then bang her again? You should last longer the second time.
     
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  8. If you feel your going to cum then switch it up like foreplay or something, slow your pace if you are going to fast.
     
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  9. yorainbow

    yorainbow Fapstronaut

    i have read somewhere, especially teenagers who are in a hurry so that they don't get caught by their parents, they develop a habit of cumming too early which can lead to premature ejaculation in later stages.
     
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  10. FrequencyLimbos

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    no sex or partners, so take my advice cautionly. Either have a "tactical wank" before or "cum" then foreplay for 5 minutes and go back at It.
     
  11. If you masturbate, you risk falling back into old patterns and losing the girl.

    I had one wank after a year without it (for stress relief during the pandemic) and relapsed for nine months :eek:

    No wanking. Much better to keep talking with her about it. You’ll probably last longer next time.
     
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