been trying to find a dedicated AP for the last week but with no luck , i don't know why . most of them sends me that they are interested but the day after some are not responsive and some deleted their accounts, it's really discouraging , I'm thinking doing all alone like I planned it from the beginning
Yes, there is a lot of group turnover. I think maybe guys get frustrated with their failures and give up or move on to other ways of coping with this issue. I'm kind of stuck here because I have to maintain the ranking. I'm glad people still find the group valuable, it definitely helps me a lot even though I haven't achieved any super-long streaks. I still want that 90 day trophy, though.
Been relapsing quite a lot recently...found myself binging and then unable to do other things as P is always on my mind. So making a new commitment today and will try and post every day because each day away from P is a success and positive. Thanks for the support everyone
about my strategy , Right now I'm aiming to replace old habits with new ones , so I added : Exercises, evening walks, drink 1.5 L of water a day, breath exercise, meditate, reading, and of course eating healthy to my daily routine. I realized I'm so weak resisting porn so I sat up some security measures and P blockers, these are the last defense line for me and they really help. what about your plan ?
You do a great job here @artefact , I’m sure we all appreciate it. I understand people change their priorities and leave but it would be nice if they said why rather than just disappear. So we know they’re still alive!
I don't post very often, but I am still alive . Still struggling with resets every now and then, a new one yesterday. I have been tracking my resets for 6 months now. I still have a major struggle with emotional stress leading directly to PMO for me. One of these day I will have to learn a new coping mechanism I hope everyone is having a good 2022 so far.
Been a while since I checked in. Went on vacation which was nice, no urges that week. Felt refreshed for a full week after too. Back to normal now.
I decided to take a long walk today in the noon it was so calm , streets were quiet and no one is wandering around except me , it was light raining, I felt so balanced, but on the second hand I still struggling with urges, I feel everything I do is boring and dull.
Very challenging weekend. I was getting over being sick (probably pneumonia or something) and then water started leaking from my ceiling. Basically spent the whole weekend stressing out about that and finally today the plumber showed up and fixed the water leak upstairs. Luckily, made it through without PM. Hopefully next week will be easier.