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Guys today is my 10th day to start NoFap journey, I am very first time trying NoFap in my life, I do not know how many days I will be able to keep up with it And will it be of any benefit to me or not? but I want to try it.
The reason behind visiting this website was because I have been used to masturbating for the past 20 years And I've been accustomed to watching Porn for the last 16 years ,even more dangerous is what I am about to tell you ,It's been almost 8 years since I got married , I have very beautiful wife and now we have 3 kids as well,In the beginning of marital life something was better but because of my bad habits, anxiety is increasing ,At the beginning of my marriage, I felt so much attraction in my wife But gradually
I started asking to my wife what I saw in the movies ,In the beginning she cooperated with me even She never like that & my demands increased ,I always wanted something different ,Unnatural things like bl*wjob, su*king, li*king and rim j*b is my most favourite , herattractiveness began to diminish even I stopped feelings about her presencewhenever we try to perform sexual relation I started facing ED The problem gradually increased but when I start see porn again specially new stuff I feel erection again, even can’t sleep without watching porn . This Porn has ruined my life. Now I have finally come to the conclusion that I’mbadly porn-addicted
And I really want to get rid of it ,This is my first step in getting rid of this disease.
I look forward to all your encouragement
So that I can restore my lost married life. Thanks for your time
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dethly
NoFap is definetly the answer to your problems. I would say that you should look to spend quality time with your wife during your reboot, and have her be involved in the process. Tell her what is going on and the two of you can work it out together
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Looking4Freedom
@pisces star. Welcome! Thanks for sharing. You'll find support and encouragement here. I too have a beautiful wife and kids and allowed PMO to affect my marriage for the worst (incl going through ED). beginning to learn how to delight in the Lord and in my wife again. How were u introduced to porn? Does your wife know or suspect? Praying now for you also.
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pisces star
Actually I was introduced to porn long time back, started with some of my friends, in the beginning I was not regular user but after marriage it became worse.. yes she is aware about my this habit because Many time I insisted her to watch porn alongside me but she never showed interest... and this thing made me more embarrassed and I started to avoid her... I also want to know about you, can you share your suggestions and experience as well
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Craig Values
Your not alone here, our stories are pretty close except that I have a few more years. From personal experience the first two or three weeks will be the toughest, after that the thoughts still do pop-up but are easier to push away. I hope, and just said a short prayer, that you will have strength and can make it on your first run. If you don't make right away you are in good company, get up and try again because you 'can' do this. It also helped me to read some of the information on this site 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' and the 'Success Stories' are very inspiring. You are doing absolutely great at 10 days @pisces star, keep going!
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salvation700
i,ve neber been married,never had a longterm mate,if ever,i can use your wisdom in this fight!