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Hi all, Outwardly, things are looking up. But I have been struggling a lot in these last few weeks. I've got a lot on my mind. He seems pretty...
And another update ...... I figure it's better to get it all out than ruminate on it. Thanks to anyone who reads this and I appreciate all the...
Thank you It's been a relief, honestly. It feels like we finally got around to saying something that we both needed to say for a long time....
@GhostWriter You might be interested to know that we made some progress this weekend toward figuring out why he lies about the petty shit. I have...
Hi @EyesWideOpen ! Okay, well I need to share this with my SO. That video gave me a pit in my stomach but it is EXACTLY how I feel! Thank you for...
I have to say, this whole post gave me chills it was so spot on. Thank you! I need to tell him about the "dying a death of 1000 cuts" thing...
From what I understand, he is still trying to get to the root of why he lies. So far, I understand that lies = safety, control, and less hassle...
That's the hard part for me. He lies about petty stuff all the time! He'll tell a half truth to make himself look better, or make some little...
It's so ironic that I go to work every day and teach my clients the same things you just told me, yet every time he lies I take it deeply...
That's one thing I've learned from this whole situation: to trust my intuition. I ignored it for a long time when I should have had more trust in...
Thank you for this. I feel like I could have written this, what you said is so similar to how I feel about his lying. What I'm struggling with is,...
This has happened sooooo many times in the course of our relationship. Definitely more now that we're openly talking about his addictions, but...
Hi @hope4healing , just wanted to drop in and send some hope and love your way. You've been very compassionate and helpful for me and I really...
How do you deal with the lying and the fibbing? This is weighing heavily on my mind right now because I can't help but think, "If he'd only be...
