sohardrn

sohardrn

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    Hi, no idea if you'll ever see this, crazy as it sounds, black clover motivated me to try a life-changing experience using nofap. Found this forum through a search engine, then I did maybe 4 searches and you came up with that profile photo. Read some of your messages and your success story really motivated me. Could we talk through direct messages?
    sohardrn
    Doing way better. Make a move on the girl. It’s worth it.
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    I have not been following your story (it has been a while). That said, I think my old advice from some time ago was to give dating a shot! Did you wind up doing this? At any rate, I hope you are doing well!
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    @AModernMiroku no biggie man, it’s been a while since i posted, but i remember your username!! I did give dating a shot.
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    @AModernMiroku Been on a few first dates. Took full advantage of february. I’m with one of the girls (she’s officially my gf) and we’ve been seeing each other almost everyday!! I love her. Give me a personal update / wins / what you’re struggling with in my direct messages, I’d love to hear from you.
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    Relapsed like 20 minutes ago. My number one weakness is when I don’t get enough sleep.
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    Sorry man, I know that feeling, sometimes it feels like a jerk off has a caffeine effect and you feel less tired all of a sudden, but that feeling can turn around fast as well.
    sohardrn
    accept the fear that she might reject you when asked. let yourself enjoy budding relationships regardless. make the time to enjoy this.
    sohardrn
    hehe 38 days. subtraction is key. subtract what's not essential to your happiness. for me I'm doing college, martial arts, applying to jobs.
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    note: highly recommend a social fitness activity. could be martial arts, could be sports. your choice. this is where you'll make friends. friends before girlfriends. after all you can't spell girlfriend without friend. nourish relations and enjoy the journey.
    sohardrn
    Lastly family situation had some changes, happy because I feel like I have a reason to make money now, but it’s not life threatening
    sohardrn
    Also had a change in perspective to how I should be treating my relationships with girls on day 30. Happy about that. More in recent posts
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    Nocturnal emission this morning (like 12hrs ago) feel kinda better now, know it’ll be better tomorrow morning.
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    Funny that I think I legit had a noghtmare that I was jacking off, think I stopped myself in the dream but still woke up with a nocturnal emission later. Bad sleep bc family were watching tv in the room below me, but now I’m back in my apartment so tonight will be better
    sohardrn
    How do I ask out girls in my martial arts class?
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    Talk is cheap. Sweep them off their feet.
    PeaceOnEarth108
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    without expectations brother
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    sohardrn
    @PeaceOnEarth108 this is the conclusion i came to on my own. I’m going to let myself enjoy the blossoming of relationships without requiring myself to ask them out by a certain time. I’ve already proven myself I have the confidence to ask out girls in the past. so all that’s left is to be social, let relationships flourish, and when the next step is a relationship or a date i’ll talk to her about it.
    sohardrn
    30 days. part of overcoming the shame was sharing it with a friend. after that, something changed. even on day 1, i felt different.
    sohardrn
    haven't jerked off once this month. don't plan to. college starts back up monday, excited. going to join social clubs.
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    urges aren't as bad or as often. am starting to feel a certain "tension" through the day, but it might just be due to wonky sleep this past week. will sleep well tonight and tomorrow. i feel myself getting horny when i see a hot girl, but in a "she's hot, i should talk to her" way. i like it. i really want to put this into practice this college semester.
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    Well done on making it though an entire month!
    sohardrn
    Sister had a ticket to a concert, decided not to go. I want to focus on my consistent joys, not a one-time experience.
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    sohardrn
    The reason I want to go to a concert is novelty, instead I will seek the novelty in finding out what happens next in my fiction book, and possibly practicing my guitar if I feel inclined. (Admittedly tho, I AM still horny.)
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    could've been a great bonding experience with your sister...
    sohardrn
    Holy shit. I wanna use a dating app.
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    I feel I am on the precipice of going back to porn or the precipice of quitting porn for the next few weeks. My next actions will be the deciding factor.
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    I’m not going to use porn or dating apps. I can get past this moment.
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