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  • Relapsed like 20 minutes ago. My number one weakness is when I don’t get enough sleep.
    Choices Has Consequences
    Choices Has Consequences
    Sorry man, I know that feeling, sometimes it feels like a jerk off has a caffeine effect and you feel less tired all of a sudden, but that feeling can turn around fast as well.
    accept the fear that she might reject you when asked. let yourself enjoy budding relationships regardless. make the time to enjoy this.
    hehe 38 days. subtraction is key. subtract what's not essential to your happiness. for me I'm doing college, martial arts, applying to jobs.
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    note: highly recommend a social fitness activity. could be martial arts, could be sports. your choice. this is where you'll make friends. friends before girlfriends. after all you can't spell girlfriend without friend. nourish relations and enjoy the journey.
    Lastly family situation had some changes, happy because I feel like I have a reason to make money now, but it’s not life threatening
    Also had a change in perspective to how I should be treating my relationships with girls on day 30. Happy about that. More in recent posts
    Nocturnal emission this morning (like 12hrs ago) feel kinda better now, know it’ll be better tomorrow morning.
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    Funny that I think I legit had a noghtmare that I was jacking off, think I stopped myself in the dream but still woke up with a nocturnal emission later. Bad sleep bc family were watching tv in the room below me, but now I’m back in my apartment so tonight will be better
    How do I ask out girls in my martial arts class?
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    Talk is cheap. Sweep them off their feet.
    PeaceOnEarth108
    PeaceOnEarth108
    without expectations brother
    sohardrn
    sohardrn
    @PeaceOnEarth108 this is the conclusion i came to on my own. I’m going to let myself enjoy the blossoming of relationships without requiring myself to ask them out by a certain time. I’ve already proven myself I have the confidence to ask out girls in the past. so all that’s left is to be social, let relationships flourish, and when the next step is a relationship or a date i’ll talk to her about it.
    haven't jerked off once this month. don't plan to. college starts back up monday, excited. going to join social clubs.
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    urges aren't as bad or as often. am starting to feel a certain "tension" through the day, but it might just be due to wonky sleep this past week. will sleep well tonight and tomorrow. i feel myself getting horny when i see a hot girl, but in a "she's hot, i should talk to her" way. i like it. i really want to put this into practice this college semester.
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    Well done on making it though an entire month!
    Sister had a ticket to a concert, decided not to go. I want to focus on my consistent joys, not a one-time experience.
    sohardrn
    sohardrn
    The reason I want to go to a concert is novelty, instead I will seek the novelty in finding out what happens next in my fiction book, and possibly practicing my guitar if I feel inclined. (Admittedly tho, I AM still horny.)
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    could've been a great bonding experience with your sister...
    Holy shit. I wanna use a dating app.
    sohardrn
    sohardrn
    I feel I am on the precipice of going back to porn or the precipice of quitting porn for the next few weeks. My next actions will be the deciding factor.
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    I’m not going to use porn or dating apps. I can get past this moment.
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    I like a girl, but I know she’s too busy to date. We’re both taking summer class. Class runs for one more month.
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    Planning to use weekends to read some textbooks for future classes (material i’m actually interested in and will set me ahead for the following semester, which i will have a light courseload in as I’ve worked ahead plenty this summer) and be ready to ask her out when the semester is closing and i have my car back.
    sohardrn
    sohardrn
    I’m audacious enough to at least ask her out as I’ve asked girls out before. So I promise bro-to-bro I will do it!! I really appreciate your advice.
    AModernMiroku
    AModernMiroku
    @sohardrn <virtual fist bump or other manly equivalent>
    Anyway, I’ve blocked and deleted all social media & content consumption.
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    i found in the past after reading a chapter i next to never remember what i just read, i now have habit of highlighting important parts , just a quick swipe on a couple sentences which takes seconds i actually remember more then i use to
    sohardrn
    sohardrn
    When reading nonfiction, I make it a habit to read 1 chapter at a time, and then journal about it. One chapter a day. Sometimes I’d do more than one, but most of the time I’d be satisfied with one and spent by trying to journal what I’d learned.
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    I need to make it a habit to write what I read to,
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