you spend so much more time physically with it than an erect one. and if it's the other way around for you, i would highly suggest seeing a doctor about that. despite what porn may tell you, your flaccid penis is normal. it's great. it's healthy. sure, have an erection every so often; that's healthy too, especially when it comes because of a real person. and if you're flatlining hard, that might be the best chance you have to develop a bond with your flaccid penis. give your body and brain a chance to heal. if you're like me, you and your flaccid penis became enemies when you tried to have real sex because it wouldn't respond the way you wanted it to. but without the marching orders of PMO, you're giving it a chance to follow a new leader. the time will come when you're rebooted and rewired, and you and your penis will both be on the same page when the time comes for real intimacy. good luck, soldier.
I just forwarded this message to the little guy and our understanding of each other is getting much better already.
No, no... He just explained he's going to play dead, maybe come back to life every once in a while then play dead again...
Thank you. This speaks to me. For me having an erection was an essential part of my addiciton. I still struggle with the discomfort of my "dead penis". I will try to embrace it.
Porn also kind of puts this picture in your head that you need to have this really really long snake hanging between your legs constantly. Not that flaccid size is shown that much in porn but just saying.
Hmm, I am not sure of the purpose of this suggestion. I am suspicious because my last relapse developed from embracing my flaccid foreskin. Obviously, if you have a natural penis, your foreskin is a big pull to have you hold it, touch it etc. But it's so responsive to the lightest touch that you can have, are you suggesting we embrace it with no contact @jocad?
yeah, back when i watched, i was always curious about why no one ever thought to show a penis becoming erect. show a grower growing and show a show-er staying more or less the same haha. just as a visual exercise, it would have been interesting without even thinking about it sexually or in the context of PMO. almost like a scientific observation.
maybe just try liking it first instead of like-liking it. friend-zone it rather than become its frenemy.
I have to say that this thread has been among the most enjoyable that I have read this week. I understand what you are trying to say but... ... ... it quickly went out on a tangent.
This post is hilarious and sweet! My ex once said to me no girl should ever have to see a limp penis. I wish I had said to him "embrace your flaccid penis!" and done the thumbs up to his relaxed little buddy. But I don't think it would've had the desired effect coming from me..
PMO me would have been really anxious about hearing that from someone who saw me flaccid. new me would be like "aww yeah, i rock."