Prostitution / rewiring advice

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by moulox, Apr 21, 2019.

  1. moulox

    moulox Fapstronaut

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    I'd like to get some advice by the more experienced/educated on this matter because I think I'm a bit confused.

    Today reached day 34 of no PMO, which is my first try to cure my ED. I went straight into a flatline (or was just disappointed from my breakup) from day one for about 3 weeks and since then I had just one good morning wood and no spontaneous erections. I keep reading that having love making sessions to a partner helps with the rewiring and the only variable is that if one should reach orgasm or not, depending on the reboot stage he is in. I know this is preferred to be done with someone you care for but am quite opposed on me trying to get a girlfriend in this stage mainly since the last one I had withdrew her support to me after a while and I simply can't take any chance to live that experience again.

    The matter at hand is if I should try having sex with prostitutes, not in the stereotypical jackhammer to the O way, but as it would with a hypothetical girlfriend; in a slow relaxing way where I would enjoy her body and I wouldn't try to force myself to achieve vaginal sex.

    So what's your opinion? Am I still too early on my reboot and I should stay clear of any O I might reach in that process?
     
  2. Hey @moulox I'm here to heal my PIED with NoPMO without a girl. Since you are on day 255, I was just wondering how it went for you? Are you cured of PIED now? Have you had girls help you with your re-wiring or have you done it alone?

    Thank you!
     
  3. moulox

    moulox Fapstronaut

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    I don't think it works that way, meaning as in not having sex. You have to "train" your brain in having sex again in a way.

    For me, after all these months sensitivity has surely come back. Of course abstinence increases the effect but If I try to masturbate now I'd probably get off faster than it took me to type this response lol. Despite the regained sensitivity though, during a couple of tries I did with escort girls, I was only able to finish orally, and wasn't able to penetrate. That's why I guess, as also another forum shared his recovery process with me, real healing isn't done without practicing having sex after you are done with the reboot.
     
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