@SheldonCooper0101 Mannnn i did all theses things you do, I will help you, Chek out my History. https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/femdom-crush-fetish-cuckold-and-other-stuff.235521/ Im having very improves this last year, sendme PV.
This will help you https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/if-youre-struggling.232140/ Good luck
hi, just read this thread and was wondering since it was a while ago are the femdom and cuck fetish dying down?
No dude...Not at all.. In fact, I feel like this has been intensifying day by day. I really don't know what to do.
im kinda the same tbh, i thought my girlfriend was going to break up with me and i had no gotten a boner for a week just because lack of sex drive but i started to get hard, this was before opening the message. im so confused
im not doing hardmode but normal mode because i have a girlfriend, but it seems to get stronger than what it was before. im always flushing out the thought if i get it so i dont think about it. does it get better and what does roughly?
I just want to know how some guys do not relapse?? I have been trying nofap since about six months. Everyday is the same thing. I tell myself I will not relapse today. At one point of the day, I can't but watch foot fetish/cuckold stuffs and eventually relapse. Then again, I tell myself the same thing about never doing that again but the same thing goes on and on. Am tired of this vicious circle and wish to get out of this. Plz help. How not to relapse???
During the last 3 days, I have been edging relentlessly. I feel as if am getting closer and closer to a relapse. Kindly help
I have a thread for curing this addiction. See the "information" section of my profile and then go to "find all threads".
Wow it’s been 2.5 years and my situation has only deteriorated. I have been watching forced bi porn and gay humiliation videos. It’s absolutely terrible. Also been watching and doing humiliation tasks videos. But there has been a glimmer of hope lately. I’m finally going out with a girl and made out with her. when we first kissed, i even had an erection. Considering my dick stayed flaccid at a strip club, this was a big deal for me. It was not an intense erection but i was still in a mood of arousal. I even further made out on next dates and was totally excited to touch her boobs and all. Because of my raging foot fetish, I even offered her a foot massage, but strangely, this didn’t excite me at all. It dawned on me that perhaps we aren’t really into these fucked up fantasies at all. While we would definitely watch these kind of porns, we would never do it in real life and instead opt for real thing. But, i still cannot continually hold my erection for long. All these years of porn watching really associated sex with these fantasies. And no porn could definitely cure this. i would love to hear your advices on this.
I am just like you, i get only ejaculation without erection by watching foot fetish, femdom, pegging and cuckold porn. I feel I am useless in helping my self. I am 38 married male. Have ED, life is ruined. Trying reboots but so far failing after 2 to 3 days
That's all very exciting, and I'm happy for you. However, let's be mindful of the fact that when we first meet someone, especially being in the dark caves in which we lurk, we look to them as a source of validation or an escape. While I wish you the best, what may come around the corner from this experience might be something that overpowers you. Be vigilant. Indeed, when you are dealing with a real person (one in the wild, and not on a screen, which isn't really a person), things change. Suddenly those fantasies you have seem unreal, strange, inapplicable, irrelevent, etc. Again, I wish you the best, but from experience, there's so many ways for your mind to trick you into thinking it's okay to go back to porn. Stay vigilant.
We are down in the rabbit hole. It seems difficult at first, but the chains of habits are too light to be felt until they become too heavy to be broken. Try to identify specific situations which triggers you and try doing something else in that instance. For instance, you might watch regular porn. This will generate the same rewards but the routine is different. With time, maybe we’ll get aroused by regular sex. anyways it’s easy to preach, but to actually do so requires lots of willpower. I, myself, can’t go a week without fantasizing about feet.