How I went from "forever alone" to having an amazing romantic experience in Europe

I'm going through exactly the same thing right now. Also, today I'm on Day 40! Another milestone! Since I started this streak, nothing but good things and blessings have been bestowed upon me, for which I am eternally grateful for. Remember when I went through exactly the same situation as you @Green Monstah but ended in heartbreak? Well, she too opened my heart and was in my life to teach me lessons, fast forward 14 months later and I'm going on dates all over the world, there's now the belief within me that there's an abundance of beautiful women out there that want to meet a guy like me. I still experience a little bit of social anxiety from deeply rooted programs I'm running but I'm working on it.

 

This gave me butterflies, Love the video too it's reminds me of the video to what inspired me to start this thing. I was watching: , watch the whole thing and you will know what I mean.

 

you are right, I was desperate, maybe I still am. I can't tell right now, firstly I need to get away from this fog. I don't even trust my thoughts these days. I have been trying for 3 years and still couldn't get past 10 days. I want to get away from this forever. Right now, typing this I'm feeling urges all throughout my body. I have stopped using the phone. Still, when urges hit me my body and brain go into auto mode and take me to phone or any device where I start typing the initials of the p I like to watch. It is so hard, soooo much harder facing them at that time. I have to calm myself and look as a third person and then tell myself what I am about to do. I want to go as far as you have come and look back like you . I will say one thing though, so far facing urges ( running away from screen, walking , eating , doing whatever in that rush but not touching and entertaining pmo thoughts) I am becoming stronger after it ends.

 

Awesome brother!

 

that seems something I can work with, I will definitely try that. you really motivate and inspire me. Thanks.

 

beautiful stuff

sounds like it could be scenes from a movie lol

 

Awesome story my friend. I hope all works out for you!

 

That is a really great story, i relate a lot to your previous situation.
I'd like to request your tips if you have some forone point you mentionned :

1. The change of mindest, what you describe by “She is too good for me. She is a 10, and I am a 2”. I mean, i'm trying to do the same but it is quite hard, i don't really see improvements

Thank you and i wish you the best !

 

Thank you for such a wonderful post! I am happy for you, brother. If I may suggest, check out Coach Corey Wayne’s channel on YouTube and subscribe to his email list. Once you do, you can read his book “How to be a 3% Man” for free online. It’s not very long and will help you immensely on your skills with women. Seriously, fuck all that pickup artist bullshit. I fell into that trap years ago and it left me feeling more lonely than ever. Sure, it works on some women. But if you don’t work on being your absolute best self/life purpose and are dependent on women for validation you will not be successful with women. Check it out! I promise you won’t regret it.

Cheers!

 

I just realised I've had my longest streak since 4th December and it has been partly due to this above incident that I've been able to keep going as long as I have been able to. Amazing! Go out there and just try it everyone!

 

This is an amazing post. I'm so glad it didn't end with you having sex, but instead having a genuine human connection with someone. It really shows hope. For all of us struggling with balancing our lives, with making PMO go away, with not focusing only on the O, this post clarifies the best in people.

I'm going abroad in 7 months. I've relapsed recently, but am in to a new streak that will go longer. I hope to share a story of connection and hope as beautiful as this.

Thank you.

 

This is a motivating story and @Green Monstah I've got a story to tell too concerning women. Mind if I share it here?cause this is so true, I can relate to this.

 

Do share !

 

Alright let me do so.

Mine is a bit different as I didn't travel to meet this one girl. It was on the night of January the 13th. I was taking a walk with a friend of mine then he called up his girl and we went to where she was. I was busy on my phone so I took another route there and when i finally got there I was expecting two people but to my surprise there was three. It was my bud,his girl and her friend whom I liked from first glance. I had two options here either walk away or talk to the girl. I took a leap of faith and took the girl by the hand and we walked to the nearest park where we talked for about two hours straight. A connection was established,the conversation was flowing like a well oiled machineI wasn't even one bit nervous. And then we exchanged numbers and we've been seeing each other ever since and we even went on a date this past weekend and believe me when I say this its so easy romancing the girl with a sober mind free from porn cause you look forward to the conversations than the sex. We haven't had any sex and I'm enjoying getting to know her we have lovely conversations and we enjoy each others company.

Either than her I'm getting hit on by women and i catch a few giving me the look but I don't act on those as I'm with someone I enjoy being with more than ever. Another incident which happened to me yesterday was as I was walking,I walked past a really cute girl pushing a baby in a stroller and didn't pay her any attention. Next thing I knew she says "Hi" and feelings of shock came in rushing,as to "Did that really cute girl say "Hi" to me??" . I responded to that with a "Hello" and she told me how "I had a fat bum" and we had a good laugh about it and we had a small talk about it. These things weren't happening to me in the past year whether it be girls taking notice of my "bum" I'm more accepting of being teased as its a way of life and my teasing game has went up. I get a lot of attention from ladies and i command respect with the gents and life is great.

Good luck to you guys

 

Love is so much better than porn!

 

That was so beautiful that made me become jealous. If that's the result of quitting PMO, I will definitely do it.
Hope you'll finally get to see her again!