masturbate to pictures of ex´s girlfriend/boyfriend ?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by CheIseaa, Mar 16, 2018.

  1. CheIseaa

    CheIseaa New Fapstronaut

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    Do you think its "ok" to masturbate to pictures of my ex girl/boyfriends ? o.o

    Let me know what you think about it.

    Just be polite and nice!

    Have a nice day!
     
  2. Anonymous86

    Anonymous86 Fapstronaut

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  3. Dr. Jekyll

    Dr. Jekyll Fapstronaut

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    You're just reinforcing the same behaviour and pathways in your brain. Choose to either start the recovery process now or start it later. It doesn't get easier later.
     
  4. Icyweb

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    It might seem like it's okay because they're "real people" and you had a connection with them, but pornstars are real people too, and that doesn't change the addictive and damaging nature of doing it. It's sexuality divorced from love that makes porn and masturbation damaging. You can't love a picture, a memory, or a an idea of a person like you can the actual person. So I would suggest you just get rid of the pictures entirely to remove the temptation.
     
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  5. BryceLi

    BryceLi Fapstronaut

    If you’re missing them that’s only going to make things harder to move on
     
  6. zakes

    zakes Fapstronaut

    Absolutely not, they an ex for a reason.

    Fapping to pic of ex is no different to fapping to pixels!

    You not doing yourself any favours
     
  7. CheIseaa

    CheIseaa New Fapstronaut

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    yeah I get your point, thanks a lot. Even tho its kinda hard but nothings easy so ...
    actually I might shouldnt even masturbate
     
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