I fapped !

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Infinite spirit, May 7, 2019.

  1. Infinite spirit

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    I tried it with a girl a fee weeks ago..but I felt nervoues and not ready. I thought a lot about visiting prostitutes. I know all that shit is not good for me. I'm not perfect. But at least I strive towards perfection. That's why some people here hate me.
     
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  2. pjain261

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    Thing is without PORN also when you do MO that may include fantasizing or bringing images in mind or visualizing some "fix" . So does your O comes after that specific visual travel which goes in mind . It's more and less same only you did not use gadget and it was for lesser time duration . Apologies if it hurts .
     
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  3. Jonny1992

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    I think many things are just misunderstood. You are a good guy. Keep up your work. You are searching for solition. Are open and ask others for their opinion an help.

    You are good man.
     
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  4. pjain261

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    Buddy I mentioned that sex with emotionally connected person your girlfriend spouse so you don't have that in mindset that you will only talking or in relation with her because of sex .
     
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  5. pjain261

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    No it's not about going with prostitutes that will not work . See I am saying here porn have killed love from our heart so we need to wake it up and find love and sex will be bonding action with your special one.
     
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  6. Jonny1992

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    Ok sorry. Didn’t mean ti harm you :(
     
  7. Infinite spirit

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    Totally agree. That's how I see it also.
     
  8. pjain261

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    It did not harm we are discussing here .
    See we all are here to make porn out of our mind . So we have to fill our mind with Goal and/or heart with Love .
     
  9. Hank Pym

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    Yes. In hardmode. This guy is doing easy mode.
     
  10. Jonny1992

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    Strong man you are!
     
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  11. phillip_ron

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    i suppose the problem is not M, but massive P. Or P that is very very impressive and make an invisible electric shock in our brain. I guess M is not the problem, but P.
     
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  12. pjain261

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    Right P is the issue . You know porn industry is the culprit over here which generates video images stories chatrooms and ruin our mind with it. They make money but we lose our life . I say this is also one kind of killing they (porn industry) are doing and because it is soul killing they are not getting caught.
     
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  14. JesusStrength

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    Did you start Nofap because you had PIED or lost libido?
     
  15. Infinite spirit

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    Both.
     
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  17. JesusStrength

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    Question 1: did you get your libido back?
    Question 2: after 60 something days hardmode did you attempt to have sex with a real woman?
     
  18. Infinite spirit

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    Answer 1: yes.
    Answer 2: I tried ..but I couldn't. Not physically..but I wasn't ready psychologically.
     
  19. JesusStrength

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    How long did it take it for you to get the horniness in your dick back? How long did it take for you to be horny again?
     
  20. JesusStrength

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    You need to try again buddy