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Monk mode...??????!

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by TheJokerBoy, Jul 27, 2019.

  1. TheJokerBoy

    TheJokerBoy Fapstronaut

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    Hey!

    My question is if 90 days monk mode solves premature ejaculation.
    Just because after 90 days the neural pathways get connected in new ways.

    Is this true? I really hate my premature ejaculation!!!
    Just wanna solve it.
    I did 20 days no PM until now. I had an orgasm last night with my girlfriend. That‘s the only orgasm I had.
     
  2. It’s not that simple. In my experience, it’s more about controling your breath and beeing focused on your partners feeling and pace, rather than your own. And that is near to impossible to an addicted brain.
     
  3. TheJokerBoy

    TheJokerBoy Fapstronaut

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    How should I move on? I really wanna solve it. How do I not focus on my feeling and pace?

    I‘m not addicted to porn.
     
  4. take it sloooooow! Relax your body and your breathing. Do lots of tender, sloooow foreplay. Touch. Have fun, laugh. Explore. It is so much more than fucking. Spiritual, creative, maybe.
    I learned a bit from the Kama Sutra.
     
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  5. Wolf2019

    Wolf2019 Fapstronaut

    Sometimes this is an issue more with younger men than older men. Not always. But if you are a young man, I would encourage you to be patient with yourself and know that you will likely get better at this with time and experience.
     

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