Extremely vicious treatment from Tinder girl

Of course I do, why do you think rich guys get most the girls

 

that sounds like cancer man. maybe she just likes fucking with people?
sorry that happened to you.

 

of wtf this is fake? wow. we need to clean up this forum.

 

if this is fake, the dude has no life lol

 

Just stumbled across this thread, feel like I'm missing something. Why do some of you think the guy is a troll? I see hes been suspended, does anyone know whats going on with this its kinda piqued my curiosity!

 

He’s been suspended?! Yay! Go to his profile and look at all of his responses and posts on all the different threads. They are awful.

 

I'm going to borrow a phrase I believe I heard from Daryl Davis, but one that I've believed for a long time:
Don't focus on the hate, focus on the hurt. Hate comes from anger, anger comes from sadness, and sadness comes from pain. If you focus on the hate, you are only putting a band-aid on a much deeper wound.

Have you ever seen a dog with an ear infection or an injury, and it becomes agitated and acts more aggressive than normal? It is not because the dog is evil, but because it is hurt. Obviously, @Andhira is not a dog, but the principle still applies. This person is suffering from a wound that we do not see because we only see his negativity and bitterness. There would be no bitterness and negativity if there was no suffering. Sure, we can get him suspended. We could maybe even get him banned. But what will happen after that? Is that a win? I don't think so.

 

I'm not sure if I would class what he has said as "awful", unless I'm missing something. Bitter and misguided perhaps, but not awful. It would be easy to label him as a troll but I'm not sure of this either, he seems to be unwilling to listen to feedback or advice and is stuck in his ways, but that just makes him stubborn, not necessarily a troll. He could just as easily be someone who is hurting and venting the negativity in the only way he knows how.

 

It’s true andhira might not be a troll, but he sure seemed to act like one. Especially when talking about how he’s worked so much harder than any other person on planet earth and is far superior to all the rest of us. Hard for me to believe that’s something real. I tried calling him out on it and giving him the benefit of the doubt but he seemed to be pretty silent on it. If he really is suffering he has my sympathy. But coming on these forums and telling people that nodal is basically a waste of time seems like troll territory to me.

 

Why did he get suspended?

 

Catastrophic or exaggerating thought and behavioural patterns are a classic sign of someone with depression, heightened anxiety levels, or some other mental issue. Is the guy just feigning these issues to shitpost on the forums? I mean theres a decent chance of it and I've seen this kind of thing before all across the internet, but IDK, I'm still not convinced that hes not just a bitter and misguided young man lashing out because hes pissed off with his life and doesnt know how to process it.

Ooooor he is a troll and I'm a complete idiot lol. Kind of interested to see what he says when he comes back, assuming he does.

 

I'm still unsure of that, based on a quick read of his recent posts hes certainly saying controversial or provocative things but nothing I haven't seen on the forums before.

 

I think he got spam-reported by a bunch of people. I haven't seen a post of his that violates the rules.

 

Ridiculous. Let people talk for Christ sake! Kid wasn’t hurting anyone.

 

I believe she's a sadist. There are people in this World who enjoy inflicting pain on others . They do so only for their own twisted pleasure. Avoid any future contact. Even if she apologises or accuses you of sulking.
Protect yourself! Sadly there are many people
like her out there. Thank goodness you saw her true colors so soon! Good luck.

 

Yeah I cant think of any other explanation, it didn't seem like he said anything that was really all that bad, I've spoken to people and seen forum posts that were way worse than this.