Came in my sleep today, i dreamed how i watch TV, i changed channels fast, but there was only porn on all channels, so in my dream i didn’t want to watch porn, but i saw for seconds very hot girls having sex and came instantly. I can’t control coming during sleep. I guess these wet dreams are making the flatline process longer, but that’s what nofap is, i must have patience. I think this wet dream was provoked by a movie because before i go to bed i saw a sex scene where i saw a woman’s naked breasts and ass (i hadn’t seen naked breasts since i stopped watching porn). I was at a disco on friday and the waitress was very very hot woman, but i didn’t felt any movement in my pants, even though she was around me all the time. My libido was very low, but i remember i drank vodka and probably that is the reason for it. I was hanging out with friends two days ago and there were a very cute girl and we talked for like a minute and i felt my penis getting so hard that i had to sit so that nobody see my boner, so i’m on a right path.
you had your chances buddy boyo. i was born with two testicles and a big cock and i never had anything. only repeated rejection, sometimes without even making a move
Okay i noticed something like a behavioral pattern. Every day following an orgasm in my sleep, my penis is very sensitive and i am really attracted to women, but after 1-2 days my libido drops to 0, i guess cuz i am still in the flatline. The libido stays to 0 for like 10 days and after these 10 days i slowly start to notice girls and women. And just when my libido gets to the higher levels (daily morning wood and getting hard from looking a girl’s butt) i get a wet dream and everything is back at 0. I must learn to control my wet dreams because they are a libido killer, from my personal experience. One more thing, today for the first time when i came in sleep, my pants were all wet. Other times my pants are dry, even though orgasms are strong.
The thing is that woman feel more atracted to men who are experienced rather than men who are virgin....and I still dont know why. And I can't understand why it is so bad being unexperienced? If you truly love someone, then do anybody (wether it is men or woman) care about the quality of sex? And why? I am so shocked when woman saying that if a men isn't good at bed they will be rejecting him. In the west sex is a status for being a good lover or not. Nobody cares about empathy and charakter if you are not a good lover. I am reading alot of newspaper and magazines and I see that a average german woman have 5-10 men in life. Now my question is this: Is this normal to fuck around with other guys? Of course I am hearing that western men cheating as well and changing their sex partner but this can't be normal, or not? I can tell this for germany at least and it is all about sex. This makes me soo sad that I considering to go to a prostitute with 40 years or so. Understand your partner and showing empathy is definetly not enough.....and I can't even blame MGTOW men for going this lifestyle. They simply have enough.
First of all, the women who care about your sexual past are not worth your attention or time in the first place. That only shows you they are another shallow sheep in the crowd who can't think or act for themselves but rather buys all the poison that moderna media has fed them for years without questioning. They are usually quite easy to spot, especially if they have an attitude, tattoos or colored hair. A good (or great) woman wouldn't care too much about a man's sexual past but rather look more at his health/strength-markers and the overall character as she values a good provider that will stay with her (in front of a good lover who might leave her). Second, no it's not normal for women to shag around with lots of other guys. And no, I am not a religious fanatic but looking at it biologically and spiritually, it's not healthy for women to do so as that quickly depreciates her SMV. If she gives away something valuable (i.e. sex and her body) too easily, it will depreciate her SMV quickly and fewer men will want to go near her or have anything to do with her. Especially when she gets older and already have many partners on her back in addition to declining looks, youth and beauty. I read somewhere that a woman's ability to pair-bond will depreciate quickly after only 3-4 sexual partners, plus the emerging research on the michrochimerism-phenomenon probably explains why promiscuous women seemed messed up in so many ways. So yes, I understand why many men want to go MGTOW and I can say that I am halfway on that track. Although I won't go near the majority of Western women out there (due to their promiscuous past and nasty attitudes) and couldn't care less about them, I will of course not reject a good or great woman if she comes by.
It is true that women prefer experienced men but it’s not that hard to understand why. There are 2 reasons. The 1st is the most important and it’s all about evolutionary psychology at play. It’s the principle of PRESELECTION. If a man was preselected by other women, then he must be a good option and a woman takes smaller evolutionary risk when choosing to sleep with him. If he wasn’t preselected, then the woman takes all the risk because she has to find out what kind of a guy he really is, if he has good genes, etc. And when he’s an old virgin she takes the biggest risk because there must be something wrong with him if other women didn’t want to be with him. Even when he seems attractive and all, the other women must have known something she doesn’t know. Otherwise, why would they avoid him? Women don’t really think about this, it all works on the subconscious level. There was an experiment where a guy with a wedding ring was flirting with women and when he took the ring off, his success rate was significantly lower. Pickup artists use different tricks to project this preselection. They go out with attractive female friends (aka “wing girls”) and they post pictures of themselves with attractive girls on social media. If you’re a mature virgin this tactics might help you. Second reason is a conscious one. First sex is a bit awkward experience and girls remember that. They want to sleep with a man who knows what he’s doing and is confident with his actions. And you can’t be really confident when doing something for the first time. Did you feel confident and relaxed when you were driving a car for the first time? I guess not. So, when you tell a girl that you’re a virgin, she remembers this awkwardness and gets turned off. So, my suggestion would be not to tell them at all. There are some girls who get excited about the thought of taking a man’s virginity. I knew of a girl who was “collecting” virgins. Quite a pervert she was! But it may be difficult to find one of those girls.
And one more thing, I have a very important message for the OP. Please stop edging! It’s worse than PMO! Edging causes varicocele which may lead to infertility! If you happen to relapse just ejaculate! If you M without finishing you can permanently damage your health. Many guys on Nofap do this mistake. They get obsessed with “semen retention” and then they slip, they start watching porn and masturbating but they think: “I’m alright as long as I don’t ejaculate”. So they don’t finish and they do it many times for hours. This habit had grave consequences for many guys, some developed varicocele and one guy even lost a testicle because it got infected with urine and had to be removed.
