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So I’ve been dating this girl for awhile now, and we already did some naughty stuff (don’t want to go into detail because of possible triggers) and I always was able to get an erection and last time we decided to try out sex for both of us our first time. I couldn’t get completely hard and...

Hi Everyone, I'm expecting this to be a long post so I'll leave a tl;dr at the bottom. I never thought I'd see the day. I am no longer gripped by the addiction of porn and masturbation. I don't have any urge to look and I am happy with my life. I will briefly talk about my story and maybe some...

Hi, I have been having sex with my wife for a month or so now, before that she was virgin, I have had ~7-10 sessions now with her but she says that she doesn't enjoy sex at all and that it is just painful for her and nothing else. In the beginning we realized we were not using enough lubricant...

I knew I was relapsing but didn’t stop I just wanted random erections and libido to be back in me, but it didn’t From past 15 days I was coming around soft porn or nude pictures and today something triggered it and I relapsed I just want my libido to be back and I want to getting aroused by...

Hi all I remember when i was young (16-19), I got boners very easily by just being aroused. Hard one at that. However, after about 11 years of PMO (i'm now 28), I realized i can't get and stay hard except i use my left hand and in a particular sitting position . Also this happened when i was...

So, I originally started this journey with the objective to retain and release more semen and not just see a pathetic drop of it after a potential sexual encounter (potentially speaking, since I'm still a virgin, if you couldn't tell from my unnecessary worrying of something so trivial). Thing...

This is a big story and nofap website helped immensely. When I was 19 years I was normally functioning sexually with occasional masturbation but was a regular teen. I had a girlfriend but she was a virgin and didn't want to have sex just yet. Then I went to study to a different country. While...

Hi, let me start by describing myself a bit. I am 23 years old, since I can remember I was attracted to dressing women's clothes, but this fetish did not bother me too much. For 5 years I have been in a relationship with a girl who tolerates seeing me sometimes in women's underwear etc. The...

Ok, for those of you who have maybe looked at some of my previous posts, you know that I currently have a femdom-findom addiction. I have had this for many years, and I am just now realizing how much it has negatively impacted my life. I do not know what it is, but for some reason paying some...

Taken from an article in the Huffpost. "I’ve had to come to terms with the fact not everyone will be understanding of my decision. I have tried to prove to men I was somehow ‘worth waiting for’, that we could create a relationship that was meaningful, but have been most often met only by their...

It sounds stupid but Im to confused inside of me. Im 20, a Virgin and Im watching porn. Problem is:everytime im getting real intimate with a girl is my dick not realy working. Hes staying low. Its quite frustrating and Im not realy sure why. Even did a testostoron test and im on the fine site...

I have crush on two really beautiful and cute girls, I just cant do any steps to date any of them. Im too afraid and shy. I will be always alone.. how do you even get a relationship?

I won’t go into my life history but to summarise I have never had a romantic relationship (3 days where I didn’t see her for most of the time doesn’t count). I am only a few days into my current streak; however, I am feeling a lot more stable this time around and would like to start at least...

Hi all, First post here - just wanted to give the community a brief introduction and hopefully get some discussion going. Background: I am a 24 year old male, PMO since 14, increasing to 1-3 times a day since about 17. Have had those periods where i will do it 4-5 times a day. Been struggling...

hi, I am in thick depression now. So cloudy that I am trying everything to come out of it. One major reason is my penis size. I am a virgin and I am fearing that my penis size is too small to pleasure a woman. When this thought occurs, my mind takes over. Extrapolating all the embarrassment I...

Hey friends, i am isolated from society for 3 years, i don't know anything about making a girlfriend or even a friend.(so i am virgin) The problem is since i started the high school i don't have a crush. I just basicly can't like a girl romanticly. But before the high school i fall in love with...

Hi. 14 days ago I decided to stop porn and fapping and I'm starting to feel again, I feel anything again. My emotions are harder, sadness, happiness, anger... The thing is that in these days I've been dating a girl (nothing had happend yet) and when I think about her I want to fap, but I don not...

Ok guys so I'm new to this site, this is a pretty heavy for my first ever post, but from what i gathered here a lot of people here are focused a lot on self improvement and I thought it'll be ok to post this here. So Im almost 32 now and I don't think I've ever held a girl/womans hand before or...

Hey! So yes I have OCD and my OCD is not more of germs but of thoughts. I'm kinda religious too and when trying to abstain from porn and masturbation I read a lot of religion stuff and now my problem is even though I am on day 3 after 1-2 weeks of relapses and this is my third try. I'm not...

First of all, thank you for reading til the end and advising me... I know it's long, but I really need help Ok so... here's the deal: I am 22 and I am a virgin. I've been fantasising about my first time for a lot of years, furthermore, I've got a very hard foot-fetish, which is a part of me...

I am almost getting discouraged cos I see no improvement or specific testimonies of people having these issues fixed and it's making me want to relapse. I have been on no PMO for a month now and nothing has changed. Although I let my eyes view instagram girls some times. Please Can these issues...

Hello everyone. Before I start, I need to tell you that I will be totally honest with you. I have no idea how to start but I am sure this will be helpful for those that are starting in this journey. I'm 22 years old and the reason why I stopped watching porn, masturbating and orgasming is kind...

Hello guys sorry for my bad English.. 19 yo there. I was wondering what you think about having girlfriend if you attracted to her but only sexually. I mean there is huge diffrence between love someone and find someone sexually attractive. After my 10 days without PMO im very horny and i find a...

Hello guys, 24 year old kissless virgin here. I have tried NoFap in the past and have never had a streak longer than 15 days in the past 5 years. I think porn is causing depression and wasting my time. I generally find it difficult to have proper sleep cycle on nofap (It gets fixed within two...

Does anyone feel like (especially early 20s) your choice of remaining without sex till marriage makes the thought of not PMOing ever again almost impossible? Like the idea that you wouldn't have an orgasm till marriage makes you feel like you can't defeat this addiction. I always imagined I...

Hola, soy nuevo aquí, he venido aquí debido a mi adicción a la masturbación, cualquier cosa me desequilibra y me hace masturbarme, he intentado cientos de veces dejar de masturbarme, pero el tiempo máximo que toma es de tres días, tengo un deseo enorme masturbarse No sé si esto tiene que ver con...

I have a problem and I need your help I'm 17, I'm addict to PMO since 3/4 years ago and I'm trying to stay away from it since a couple of months ago. I used to masturbate everyday once or more, and I think that has caused me premature ejaculation. I say "I think" because I'm still a virgin. I'm...

This is my first post here, day 5 of NoFap (longest I've ever gone) and for the past five years, all it seems I do in high school is screw up and I hate it. I never get invited to parties, everybody looks at me as the weird poser kid and I have no game. I know people say that it gets better...

It took a long time for me to finally join the nofap forum. I'm a 23 yo from student from germany. (male) I started with pmo at the age of 11. Since then i was never able to stop for longer then 2 weeks. At this age i never though that pmo could be a problem. But as it turns out, it was the...

I've been addicted to fapping since I was 10 and it has really consumed my life to the point where whenever I talk to a girl, I just imagine wanting to screw her or just see her getting screwed. Because of it, my anxiety and not being able to talk to girls properly has lead to me not being able...

My love life story: I am a really shy guy, because i was born with one testicle and when i was younger i was really ashamed of this and thought that when girls see this they will laugh or be shocked by this. I started masturbating when i was about 14. I had few chances to have sex: When i was...

For the past couple of days now I have high, like really high urges to start PMO’ing again. It’s unbelievable. Every time I lay in bed at night the urge just kicks in. I started my NoFap journey in May 2019. It’s been almost 8 months already, with ups and downs, I am on day 40, my third big...

Hi, i'm a 29 year old male from Europe. I am struggling with porn & masturbation addiction for many years now, and never had much success whenever I tried to put an end to my addiction. I almost always failed at stopping myself from fapping & always beat myself up whenever I do fail. I never...

Here we go again another relapse after countless years of trying, I’m 24 years of age still a virgin who has been addicted to porn since the age of 16. I never thought porn was a problem until I finally met a girl and guess what I couldn’t get it up,( most embarrassing situation ever) this is...

Heya, Today marks the day I finally reached day 50 again. As the title said : I did it before, it was my previous streak and also first 'serious' streak (which lasted from 23 May 2019 - 17 August 2019 ; 87 days). Unfortunately I got my heart broken on day 87 and relapsed for a couple of weeks...

So I study at a university and I always hear these guys talking about what a cure girl they met and went home with etc. And here I stand .. 22 year old guy that is still a virgin. I know that I am pretty shy and I don't have the confidence to talk to girl. I am well aware of that. The problem is...

Hey, this goes out to all the men/women out there who haven't been with anyone for a long time and is feeling depressed because you're single or you feel inadequate. You're all worth so much more than you give yourselves credit for. I just really wanted you guys to know this. We are all in a...

Not sure if this is the right subforum, but hopefully someone will read this. I'm 21M, single, virgin. Just started nofap, have had some successes (25 day streak 1st attempt) and failures (multiple relapses afterward) but I'm still committed to it. Not an incel - had many opportunities to have...

So, I am 15 years old, and I've never kissed anyone. All my tries have failed. Am I late? I say to myself: "Relax and live! The live is more than this, and the time shall come!", but some moments later, I get sad because of this. The worst part is to have to lie about this, in order to not be...

Hello all, I wanna share with my story. I was born witj high sex drive from the beginning. I had sexual thoughts from the age of 7 (maybe even earlier) and attaigned puberty at the age of 12. I suffer from hypersexuality... I also wanna point out that i am still a virgin... I wanna know...what...

I see people freak out over them being virgins and thought this article in The Guardian might help. It's about people who lost their virginity in their 30's. It'll remind the virgins 30's or under that they'll not alone. Here's an extract from it: Sarah lost her virginity when she was 31...

So here's my problem. I talking to various females, One of them seems to be the one that is just so in love with me that is willing to give herself up without much effort from my part. My dilemma is I don't really like her, She was the one who initiated a sexual move while we were on a trip. I...

I'm 25 years old, overweight, virgin, shy man. I'm into NoFap for a week and a half, and I'm going crazy because I don't have a girlfriend. So I'm receiving little to no help. I'm getting rejected by girls 7/24, I'm like a fucking ghost to them. They don't take me serious because of my weight. I...

22 year old male abstaining from Porn and masturbation. Been using porn since i was 12 at least. High speed internet fuckeries. Porn has probably changed my brain for the worse. I objectify women to their hips and bodies instead of their individual qualities. This immature outlook has meant that...

Hello, 24 yrs old male here, living in the UK, Asian, got a job, I'm a virgin too and have been on nofap for 4 years now. So as a teenager I never once desired to see an escort or even engage in real sex because of pmo, however when I discovered nofap at age 20 I guess that started to change...

Hey everyone, Are there any other middle 20 - early 30 year old males who are also still virgins who can relate to me? I am personally waiting until marriage for a number of reasons, but I definitely want to have the most special connection with my future spouse. I'm currently 25, and while I...

Like the title says, I lost my virginity to a prostitute. I had been thinking about it for a long time and after frequenting a forum dedicated to escorts/prostitutes for some time, I finally decided to message an independent girl. I live in a country where prostitution is not illegal. I want to...

Hello there, I've been on this page for a few months now and managed to do some smaller streaks, however always relapsed (21 days was my best) and am now pretty much back to PMOing every other day. This is already an improvement, because before being on nofap it was AT LEAST every day and I felt...

Until you truly love yourself, you can't love someone else. I know it sounds cliche. But it's true. Until you truly learn to love yourself you will not be able to get over this feeling. Don't get me wrong... I'm not one of those anti-fat shamers or new-age bullshit pushers... If you have nothing...

Okay quickly I need to provide some background info on my situation. I've been emotionally invested in this girl who lives across the US and I have never met her in person (we webcam and etc). When time came, we finally met in person and we had 5 days and 4 nights to spend with one another...

I just want to release this sexual tention from my body really hard.i don't want to relapse.last night I got a wet dream and now I am feeling too eager for sexual relalease.I am on day 23 no pmo.Any suggestions will be helpful.

Hello, all my life I couldn't talk to women very well as I wasn't used to being around them. Recently I left my moms and moved in with two girls which helped me quite a bit. At one point I noticed it's been like 1.5 months since I did PM so I decided to keep going. Worked on myself and started...

Hi, I've been wondering something. Well, first, I have to mention that I never had sex. So I bought a fleshlight and I tried to masturbate, since it was supposed to be the closest way to feel what sex feels like. And well, at first, I struggled to put it in, it was too slippery. Once I put it...

Hey everybody, this is the first time I am posting here, but I think that you people might be able to help. I am 19 years old and male. I have never had sex, I have only done foreplay (getting a blowjob, performing oral sex on my girlfriend, making out etc). I have never, and I do mean that to...

(sorry for bad english) I just want to share this story that happened to me last night, hope you can give me advice or share similar stories. i'm 22 year old male, i was a virgin, i'm pretty shy and intoverted. I am also strugglin to quit porn and masturbation, i strarted watching porn when i...

Okay.... so here goes... This is literally my first time talking about this. I am a 23 year old straight virgin male and since a young age I have had a spandex (under armour, running tights etc.) / sports gear (football & rugby jerseys, tight fitting running tops etc.) fetish. I have only ever...

I am a 29 year old virgin who just got the confirmation of his super ugliness. I've been reading some articles and have asked for the real rating of my face and realized the reason of my loneliness is my ridiculous deformed ugly face. It's been 2 weeks and I am already blackpilled. I honestly...

Hi, i decided to start nofap around January this year, since then i have had a number of short streaks (no longer than 30 days). I decided to begin nofap after two failed attempts at penetrative sex and a few failed attempts at oral sex. In all cases i was initially aroused by the girl i was...

I'm writing this to vent to someone. I've never had a girlfriend and Im 17. I've never kissed a girl, nothing. I've been told SO many times that I am super attractive etc. People are always surprised to find out I'm not some stud with the ladies. Yet I have never had anything close to a...

When I look in the mirror everyday, I genuinely think I look good/fine. While I am an introvert, I still interact with people with confidence and positive energy. I’m 16 and so far through high school I thought that eventually dates/sex would come naturally. I get mixed reception about my...

I started by reboot journey back in May on my b’day. But since then i’ve relapsed x5. Every time i relapse i feel like shit just after ejaculating. And the interesting part is that after every relapse i make a plan in my mind that everytime i get the compulsive thoughts, i would think this and...

Hey everyone. I'm a 23 year old man who's been struggling with addictions for the longest time, including porn. This isn't the first time I've made a NoFap account, but I've come back because I genuinely believe that fapping away to porn on the regular is one of the main roots of my lack of...

I have had 2 or 3 wet dreams since I have started to quit masturbation. I wonder how dangerous it could be to not masturbate this long. Do people here have any scientific article about this? I am 29 years old and I do not want to fap anymore. I have had enough of this misery. To make it more...

I (22M) was talking about being a virgin with some of my friends. Good people, they gave me some advice. I said I was feeling weird because although I really want to have sex, I just can't get myself to go further (kissing for example) with girls I find kind of boring or not feel intimate...

Hi, mi name is Juan, I'm 20 years old from Argentina (virgin), i'm a porn / fap addict. I spend my time fapping like 3 rounds minim for a day, I trust that I need some help. I go to the point of needing to masturbate to calm the nerves with the study, or every time I panic if I need to...

If you are struggling with chastity (which we all are, porn and masturbation are just manifestations of a disordered sexuality), this woman will help you win the battle. She is the mediatrix of all grace, she is the one who crushed the head of the father of lies, the most chaste woman in all...

(If someone has already discussed this subject, I would appreciate it if someone could turn me to it) Since the first sexual experiences for males (and presumably females) plays a massive role in creating neural pathways to repeat that behavior (that's why boys raped by other men in their...

Hey guys, haven't been here for a long time. 2015 was actually my last time here. not much has changed since then. I had a girlfriend for a short period of time in the summer of 2016 (still a virgin tho) and now im 23. Spontaneously, I decided to give nofap another go. even tho i came to terms...

Now, this is serious. I should begin with a disclaimer: I'm NOT in puberty, that's not mere coincidence. So, hi everyone! My first post in this forum. I signed up two days ago but waited till today, my 31st day so I'm legitimate to post here. I want to share with you my story, amazing as it is...

So yeah, I am 24 M and still carrying my V plates. I have a fairly good social life. But I am too disinterested/afraid of rejection to ever approach anyone in that way. I masturbate about 2-3 times a week. I live on my own, work 12 hr shifts which give me several days off so I spend a...

Hi, I will be straight to the point! I am 24 & s virgin. I have never even got a chance to hold hands with a girl romantically. Never even kissed anyone. I am currently in college & everybody around me is somewhat in a relationship. Those who are not go to a prostitute. I personally hate the...

Okay guys. Here we are. All of us have lost something or the other. Some of us have our partners or crushers, whereas some of us have lost ourselves. Personally speaking I have lost both. Today was the day I cried my heart out when I gave up on pursuing my crush. FUCK PORN. THAT SON OF A BITCH...

Hello everyone. Here is some backgound of my story, in second post I will write how I feel after 22 days of noFap I am very shy person, and also I had, and still have some issues with my mental health. That issues started when I was about 8 yo, I was diagnosed with OCD and Tourettes (motor and...

Hello brothers :) I am so happy that I have found this site... Its so much easier to share your own story with anonymus, that also fight with same problems. Anyway lets begin. I have to go really deep in past to remember how it all started. But lets start with even before PMO and MO started. I...

Hi, I'm an 18 years old guy. I suffer from a depression for a long time and I feel lonely. I doing better than before but there's days that I feel terrible again. I have never had a relationship in my life, or even kissed a girl or have sex. I masturbate 3 to 4 times per day and I think I may...

Fapstronauts, I've been watching porn since I was 12yrs old, and I've actually been trying to quit PMO for the past 10 months to little avail. I'm also struggling with social anxiety and I'm a virgin. I'm glad to have found this community and I'm hoping that with your help I can reach the 90 day...

Okay, so where do I start? I'm a guy, age 24 and currently still a virgin, however I plan to change that within the next month. I feel like when I masturbate my dick is not fully hard and still somewhat flexible. I don't think it's supposed to work like that. I'm a masochist, when I have sex I...

So folks it has been 102 days since I have lasted masturbated, looked at porn, etc. Just thought I would share my story. I am 28 years old, Christian guy, living in the Caribbean. My reason and motivation for nofap is due to my faith. Didn't grow up in a Christian family only made the decision...

Hello. I am a 28 year old virgin from Iran who is very ugly and super skinny. Please do not give me the Gym talk, since it won't work on me. I have decided to quit watching porn and masturbation since 5 months ago. I have succeeded regarding masturbation but not substitute porn. I mean I don't...

Hello, I'm a 28yrs old male. Thank you for taking the time of reading my story, I'll try to put it in short words. I'm virgin and tried to lose it twice using escort services, failing due to performance anxiety. During my younger years after a hard heart break with my crush I focused myself to...

Hi, so I'm fairly new to nofap and this is the longest I've gone without PMO (10 days) and I've never experienced this flatline before in my life… yet. Anyway I was wondering if it's still possible to be able to get it up when with a woman and perform just fine during the flatline? I ask...

Im 25 yr old virgin who was introduced to pornography at the age of 12.It all started when my older brother came home one day with a penthouse magazine.I was immediately hooked with the images since it was something I had never seen before.He was a few yrs older than me but both being teenagers...

First, first I want to apologise for my terrible English. So...I in fapping since 14-15 years old. 4-10 orgasms in a day was average. Now I am a 27 years old man. I want you to understand that always I been really easy with girls. But all my relation ships never went further than petting...

OK so I mustered all the courage to confess on this forum that I am a 31 years old virgin. I am a teetotaler and non smoker and a vegetarian. I take pride in keeping myself fit and healthy. I am heterosexual and I have been masturbating a lot since I was 13. I have never kissed a girl . I...

Hi, I'm 28 yo virgin living away from family and friends because of work. My work needs me to be travelling almost on daily basis.I meet up with my friends/family maximum 2 times in a year. This makes my work uninteresting. I wake up with a hardon everyday .Been masturbating since 2004 almost...

hello everyone, I'm a 24-year-old virgin as the title said, I am single and I do want to be virgin until marriage, for me its berry important but i have problems because i started watching porn and now i'm an addict, i was thinking in making exercise to release energy, i really don't know what...

First some context: I'm a 26 yo virgin and started fapping around 12. Started to use internet porn when is was like ~15. Two years ago I was in a short-lived relationship with a girl but there was no sex. I haven't developed weird fetishes or anything but after I broke up with that girl I...

I'm 22 years old guy who is a virgin . I'm porn & masturbation Addict. I've been masturbating since I was 12-13 using prone masturbation method, rubbing myself on mattress . I started watching porn when I was 17 years old. I fap 2-3 times a day. I can't last a day without watching porn &...

So I have done this challenge for 100 days now and I finally found the time to sleep with my gf for the first time of my life. Everything was fine, but than I could not get a boner. Even masturbation did not help. That made me thinking: I made 100 days within my first attempt and had no real...

Well ... Hi. My motherlanguage is not english, so i apologize for the grammatical errors and the misspellinsg. I just want to write down some lines of Life. I'm 21 and I'm living in Hamburg, Germany. When i was 13 i had my first "girlfriend". We just kissed each other, but didnt have sex of...

I actually tried this before in the past but this is my first time using NoFap to help me. before all I ever did was say I would stop and barely last 48 hours.

Hello! You can call me Captain. PMO has always been a mode of release for me. Whether I was sad, upset, happy or bored. (You get the gist of it) To cut things short, I have PIED. I've never been able to successfully have vaginal intercourse. have been the only thing that worked, and even...

Hey I'm Carter, about to graduate highschool and have had a chronic lack of confidence since I hit puberty despite girls showing interest in me. I know this sounds conceited but I am conventionally attractive and never had trouble getting girls attention, I just never know what to do with that...

Whatsup everyone, I am in the beginning stages of my reboot and am about to turn 20 in college. There are plenty of opportunities for me to meet new girls, but I am afraid that if things go well they are going to expect sex sooner than me and I won't be able to perform. With that being said...

Yo- Just created this account for this post, so hopefully someone here has a shared experience and can offer some advice. I am recently 18, and I am a virgin. I have tried to fuck probably 5 times with the same girl, and every time my dick cannot get hard enough. I am very athletic, have no...

Hi everyone, I'll jump right in and explain why I am here. I am turning 20 in a couple of weeks and am ready to get rid of this addiction once and for all. It first started when I was 14. Like many of the rest of you I started with softer content, but soon enough I found myself watching kinkier...

I want to share a topic that I was thinking about myself. The main reason, may be, is that I feel kind jelous about guys who often have sex, but damage girls in the process. Males trying to patch a void in them, but left women hurt, alone and sometime worse than they found them. I though that...

Hey there, I will have my first time soon and I dont want to cum early. Is it acceptable to PMO to achieve this? It will just be one time and only before dates with her. I mean, I will lose my 2 week streak but I dont really have problems with it. I will just start new. I dont feel that I have...

(Sorry if my English isn't gramatically correct; I can undertand it properly, but writing or talking needs more improvement from my part.) Hello community! I'm here ironically searching for advice for dating and courtship. Well, I want to stop fap because I'm still virgin. I'm almost 24, but...

Salutations to you all. I thought I'd stop by and tell you my story. I've been on NoFap for 5 months with continual relapses every 3-4 weeks but fortunately I'm still seeing positive effects. I'm now 33 years old, never had a girlfriend, still virgin, never kissed a girl and I'm pretty sure...