Krillin1993

For now focus on maintaining your mental health. And get rid of this PMO habit. And later you can get to the next step.

Leave all of this to fate. You aren't a failure because of your chronic diseases, and your financial situation can improve as you become more and more independant. It's not a fatality. Just in case you think about starting a family. Otherwise, it won't matter much.

My core advise is to let things go smoothly, as much the current of life will make them. Overthinking will not help you at all.

if you relapse after it you will feel how stupid pmo is... ok if its real sex i see no problem really but pmo is completely in every way longterm awful!!!!

You don't want to concentrate on anal sex, you know very well what it is. And you can achieve it, just be patient.

@she-dernatinus Today I have peeked and edged alittle bit. It was a wrong decision and I felt bad again. I am really not sure if there is an end of the tunnel or not. Maybe I have accepted to stay as a looser for the rest of my life. I don't see any light for my future anyway.

So...just..accept your proble.s and mistakes...accept that you are responsible for your life ..forgive yourself.....and start loving yourself....the person u are now...not the person u wish to become....
And then put all your focus in what u love and want......

Have positive vibes...spread positivity....smile...let people call you crazy for being happy and kind in this injustice world we are living in today.....
And then..believe me that u will find changes....ur life will change for the better

I hope u will feel better in sometime......
Take care

Not sure what religion holds you back, but it isn't the freedom, it is the delusion you seek.
If you go down this path, it will get worse and worse. Don't destroy yourself.

Lots of people live with their parents. Lots of people don't have partners. Lots of people have financial problems. Lots of people are sick.
If you really want to change your life, you need to stop this addiction. Your finance, your health, your relationship, all will improve.

A real relationship takes a lot of effort. If sex outside your marriage isn't a thing in your society, then doing so will be an act of irresponsibility.

It's exactly the same way of dehumanizing the opposite gender. There are women who would even say that men are only breathing dildos. Anyways, both reek of narcissism.

I can understand assholes more when you even know which immoral things they want to do. But woman who are hiding their want to men or their Partner are far behind that meaning of an asshole.

@she-dernatinus I am okay when woman call me a breathing dildo at least I know what the think but there are those type of woman who are hiding their evil plans to use men just for selfenrichments.

You will find a girlfriend, I'm guarantee you that. Just stick to that path. Flatline is temporary! Don't focus on your weaknesses, keep youself busy, try to improve, even a little bit every day. By doing these things you will gain confidence, girls will notice this, trust me.

I don't believe in that anymore. Maybe I will go to met an escort girl in 3 or 5 years. I am not a good looking man and also I am short and a too kind person. Woman like mostly a tall male and dominant men figure. I feel so lost.

It's not so important, come one, change your attitude. Girls are mostly looking for mens with colorful personalities, they want to feel safe and loved. At least the mature ones. If you give up, you will die alone for sure, only by keep moving with hope and positivity you can make a difference. So shut up, go out there and try! Just try man... :)

it's a good song :D

Thank You so much. :)

Yes, congratulations from my part as well.

keep going. It is a good sign.

she-dernatinus I will. Thank You! :)

Getting rid of social media is a great way to reduce the urges and to feel more content.

maybe your mother had issues of her own. That might be the reason behind her attitude.

Anyways, sometimes the best way to deal with an issue is not to think about it.

I can’t tell but it’s same as how you’re friends/girlfriend treats you, But a Mother will never leave you lol @Krillin1993

There is no rush to make such a decision.

Marriage is a big waste of time. It sucks your energy away. I dont want to be a victim of any woman. I can imagine about relationship when a woman hits the Wall after 40.

I think you need to avoid those kinds of content on youtube. while I don't deny there is some truth to their words, I don't take anything they say for granted. Those people pretend to know pretty much anything about others and relationships, while it's obvious they are after views and money as well.
I don't agree totally with your comment, but this is what I noticed about those supposed relationships 'experts'.

There for sure erotic photos of men. It just depends on the pages you visit and your search preference.

The only time a man showing himself half naked is when he is at the gym. But half naked woman are almost everywhere on social media. They need the atraction from men more. Thats what I have observed.

There are a lot of them as well, it's just due to your research and preferences. It widely depends on the traffic you create on the platform.

Agreed. Its a slippery slope

Agree 100%

Very true statement.

To me Chris Mccandless is the symbol of freedom. I honestly, would be really happy if he was my friend. And yes Chris was very much against materialism. Someday I will go into the wilderness fully prepared and survive like mccandless. And I want to come across a small town, where I will meet the love of my life. But first I need to break a few addictions.

Man, its so sad, Yutaka Ozaki passed away :( he seemed to be a really kind and handsome guy. And those photos look really messed up. I read that reddit post, and its very rare that you see a person who speaks against his seniors. This is especially rare in Japan. And there's nothing bad in speaking up against seniors.

Its really crazy that both of these great men died in the same year. Their sense of freedom and youth will impact many people. Rest in peace Mccandless and Ozaki.