Krillin1993

I am a Looser who has lost his whole Life and I will always love my 2nd Pillow,...just let me live my innocent romantic Fantasies without being hurt all the Time, okay? I think I will never become a real Man anyway... thats how they see me. Thats my Destiny.

You're 30 years old. You can turn it around. But if you don't believe in yourself, then this is a waste of time.

My Life is already over with 30 for different Reasons. And unfortunately no.... I can't. Although I still have Dreams and Wishes but maybe its really Time to give up every Dream and every Wish and accept Life as it is. I think I will die as an invisible Loner.

incel is such a negative term, i personally use , celibate, but i know how you feel, currently im in a region i was not born nor raised in,and females are not drawn to me, but...the region i was born in ,females love me,

so possibly your in the wrong region, pack yourself an brave the world with new travels, i plan to take vacations ,but really they're for scouting a new region to live,

Live love. You deserve to be happy, and you have the opportunity to make it happen. Count your blessings and don’t stop. If you learn to enjoy what you have, you won’t need anything else. I appreciate your honesty and courage to share your feelings. You are not alone <3

My whole Childhood and Youth I have seen Woman as Angels...I really did. I knew the intention of this Statement of those 2. I was not the Choice. But saying this so openly to me, it has hurt me really deeply. This happens because I took Woman really serious and respect them. And it only has showed me what they really have thought.

I wanted to become taller but Doctors haven't allowed me to take Hormones. God claims to have created People perfectly....obviously not! They are even children who are coming unhealthy and disabled to earth. God contradict himself with his words. I hate God because he made me suffer my whole Life.

....or Maybe God is pure Love and I still don't understand him enough. I don't understand the whole world enough. We are born, we reproduce (which makes no sense at all btw) and we die and this over and over again. So whats the point of the Universe? What should we reach? What is the goal of Life?

And if I tell her about my bad Life Situation I think she would refuse me. When she knew that I'm suffering from an illness or doing 2 jobs that only Loosers like me do. And when she sees my ugly face....I'm already feeling myself so lost. Will I ever mean something for somebody? Can a Men experience Love only for his good Heart?

If this girlfriend going through the same or similiar Lifecircumstances I can easily accept her..but sometimes people smile at you and they reject you because they can't accept your Suffering. Your heart is then useless. Your good intention is not needed.

Maybe I will end up alone for the Rest of my Life. It is so so sad. I wish so deeply to be accepted from a Woman that I didn't know yet and then I can die peacefully. In my Youth I was so shy towards woman and as i grew older I see that people have high Expectations. I think I can never fit in anybodys Dreams.

@Krillin1993 Yes but at least from a Buddhist perspective of karma, what you're talking about in terms of your parents is more the karmic fruit than karma itself. You have inherited whatever pattern because of their action, it was originally action, not stuff you get. The point of emphasizing action is it's all workable.

As far as being not enough, let me ask then are women who are maybe not that great looking but have a good heart enough for you? Why do we even think in terms of a measurement like 'enough'? I think it could be a matter of matching up in a complementary way. Here I would point out it's not just our karma and genetics but also the society we live in that influence us, including the idea of "enough".

For answering the first Question: They are enough for me....but they all love successful Men. I am not successful....I am the opposite. It is almost impossible to find people who love someones heart and who understands Mens suffering and who also find it enough to love them for just their being. Most relationships are lies.

I love the whole World because it is worth it to be loved. Sounds weird huh :)

You posted your whereabouts and ancestry long time ago here, I don't remember the thread exactly :) I'm Slovenian

I know what you want to say. Of course this is a Dream for alot of Turks to retire in Germany and to go back to Turkey. But I guess I have to become 70 or 80 to go back to Turkey. Without any monthly income this is really hard to find a Job in Turkey since there are alot of refugees in Turkey from Syria Ukraine Afghanistan currently.

I even didn't had made a Vacation for about Decades. One Day if I meet my future girlfriend and saved abit Money I would go with her near to a Beach in Alanya Bodrum or Çeşme in a 5 Star All Inclusive Resort Hotel and let us massage in a Spa and eat how much we want. This is a silly Boys Dream I know.

If respect involves understanding, then it stands to reason self respect involves understanding ourselves.

@Frassvelli I am so happy that you have accepted me as your friend. And I really like it to talk with you. I am open to believe in god back again so dont worry. Sometimes people tend to think that people are becoming Barbaric and unfair just because they dont believe in God but I am not like that.

I got a really good friend here who is a non-believer and he is such an awesome guy and I learn so much from him! Whether or not you will believe in God is your personal choice. So don't worry that I will think less of you just because our perspectives about God differ.

@Frassvelli I really admire your Power that you have reached over 1000 Days tells me that you fear and love god at the same Time. And you also do it for your Love. You are such a sweet human being. You are incredible. :)

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@Frassvelli I am pretty sure that you are a good husband to her. :) I wish you both all the best...I really do. I find it is important to be there for someone who is going through a hard Time. Because nowadays People are there for you when you have a good Time but never there when you are experiencing bad Days.

@Krillin1993 we have to know how to take care of ourselves first of all. We can't give something we don't have. Yes, it is unfortunate that our expectations of people fail us.

https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/today-is-day-100-for-me-and-i-have-still-some-unsolved-problems.352162/

Wow!! You are an amazing young man! Keep it up! So happy for you. Now, aim higher!! There will come a point you no longer need to count each day. Trust me, that day will come!

Congrats!

Well brother @Krillin1993 , I takes so many years and decades of practice. But you're doing great! Keep it up and stay focused! The urges go away in a matter of minutes.

@heart of repentance Thank You! :) I will keep going on! @Frassvelli I see. You are one of my role models here. I will continue this Path till I die, because it feels great to feel normal again. :)

@Krillin1993 , you are a very promising man! Thank you! If you will need any support, I will just be here. It is great to no longer be a slave but to be masters of ourselves!

...why not enroll for dance classes or something?

@amaranth I'm already broke xD hahahahahahaha ....but thank you for this Advice!