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The Lord of the Rings Challenge

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by RiseToGreatness, Sep 22, 2019.

Should the Thread Title be extended?

Poll closed Jun 21, 2020.

  1. No, leave like that: "The Lord of the Rings Challenge"

    18 vote(s)
    54.5%

  2. Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: The Fellowship of Nofap"

    15 vote(s)
    45.5%

  3. Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: Rising Fellowship of Eärendil"

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%

  4. Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: The Journey to Mount Doom"

    5 vote(s)
    15.2%

  5. Yes. "The Lord of the Rings Challenge: The Quest of the Ring-bearer"

    6 vote(s)
    18.2%
Multiple votes are allowed.
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  1. Apr 28, 2020 #3401
    Julito

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    Day 1
     
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    Julito, Apr 28, 2020
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  2. Apr 28, 2020 #3402
    Diderik

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    My counselor asked me when I brought up my last relapse into PM: "What were you thinking when you started to lapse?" It will help you to determine what thoughts trigger you if you answer this question for yourself.

    Do you focus on what you want to do with your life currently and going for goals, rather than only what you do not want to do (PM)? I recently started to do this, so we will see how much it helps me this time around.

    Admittedly, I am only on day two. I am still an orc, but maybe I have given some advice that helps you.
     
    Diderik, Apr 28, 2020
    Diderik, Apr 28, 2020
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  3. Apr 28, 2020 #3403
    Bart31

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    Checking in day 2
     
    Bart31, Apr 28, 2020
    Bart31, Apr 28, 2020
    #3403
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  4. Apr 28, 2020 #3404
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    Day 14: Will finally be back up to a Hobbit tomorrow.
     
    Deleted Account, Apr 28, 2020
    Deleted Account, Apr 28, 2020
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  5. Apr 28, 2020 #3405
    mak2504

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    Relapsed Again. Day 2 again. I don't know whats happening
     
    mak2504, Apr 28, 2020
    mak2504, Apr 28, 2020
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  6. Apr 28, 2020 #3406
    RiseToGreatness

    RiseToGreatness Fapstronaut

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    stay well brother!! All the best :)
     
    RiseToGreatness, Apr 28, 2020
    RiseToGreatness, Apr 28, 2020
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  7. Apr 28, 2020 #3407
    RiseToGreatness

    RiseToGreatness Fapstronaut

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    oh i understand, yeah, that happens, because prostate is solid sealed now without masturbation, sometimes semen leaks out but it´s residual. It´s more like a temporary breach in the dam ;). No problem.
     
    RiseToGreatness, Apr 28, 2020
    RiseToGreatness, Apr 28, 2020
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  8. Apr 28, 2020 #3408
    RiseToGreatness

    RiseToGreatness Fapstronaut

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    i think that both levels should run at the same time.

    - On one level we should focus on what we don´t want: recall that we´re addicts on recovery, revise our excuses to pmo (and answers to it), recall the rewards we´ll get when we reboot, check in with AP´s, etc. This is what i call the "daily reboot work."

    - On the other level we should focus on what we actually want our lifes to be. so create new habits, better habits, stay occupied, work on our goals, dreams, etc. Craft our lifes to be a masterpiece. don´t wait for nofap start making effect, we must start now working on our lifes. In the end nofap will only reinforce that new better life ;)
     
    RiseToGreatness, Apr 28, 2020
    RiseToGreatness, Apr 28, 2020
    #3408
  9. Apr 28, 2020 #3409
    RiseToGreatness

    RiseToGreatness Fapstronaut

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    the first weeks are always terrible. see if you can change your system in some way. revise your triggers system. and try to gain awareness how the relapse begins and if your mindset is 100% commited to nofap. these are some hints that can help you to get to the root of the problem.
     
    RiseToGreatness, Apr 28, 2020
    RiseToGreatness, Apr 28, 2020
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  10. Apr 28, 2020 #3410
    RiseToGreatness

    RiseToGreatness Fapstronaut

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    One more day of walking my brothers.

    For those who feel lost i´m with you and i was there 2 years ago, the exact same rock botton. And i say to you, you can do it. Believe in yourself. You can do it. And remember the mindset "i´m gonna reboot or die" - this is the mindset that it´s needed. 100% commitment, 99% is not enough. We got to deal this as if it´s cancer, because this addiction will never stop. Never.

    We break free from this, or this thing break us apart. There´s no middle point.

     
    RiseToGreatness, Apr 28, 2020
    RiseToGreatness, Apr 28, 2020
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  11. Apr 28, 2020 #3411
    matt2k12

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  12. Apr 28, 2020 #3412
    FellowCompanion

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    Greetings,
    I'm here to join your adventure.
    Count me in!
    :emoji_crossed_swords:
     
    FellowCompanion, Apr 28, 2020
    FellowCompanion, Apr 28, 2020
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  13. Apr 28, 2020 #3413
    Gorgewalker

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    3 Days. Lots of urges, not giving in today.

    @RiseToGreatness you are totally right about the commitment, but I've been wondering how you cultivate that mindset 100% of the time? I find it easy to "say" I'm 100% committed when I have no urges, but when cravings kick in the commitment seems to crumble. A lot of the time I feel I'm surviving urges on motivation, which is a recipe for disaster since motivation only lasts so long. It really feels as if I have two brains, one begging me to use and one begging me not to use.
     
    Gorgewalker, Apr 28, 2020
    Gorgewalker, Apr 28, 2020
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  14. Apr 28, 2020 #3414
    rotten_tomato

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    Day 4
    I hope everyone is doing great!
     
    rotten_tomato, Apr 28, 2020
    rotten_tomato, Apr 28, 2020
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  15. Apr 28, 2020 #3415
    t8031t

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    Day 3
    Feeling dull, trying intermittent fasting,

    ORC
    THE LORD OF THE RINGS CHALLENGE. +++++I got be the dancer to dance,


    [​IMG]
     
    t8031t, Apr 28, 2020
    t8031t, Apr 28, 2020
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  16. Apr 28, 2020 #3416
    mak2504

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    Day 3 check in
     
    mak2504, Apr 28, 2020
    mak2504, Apr 28, 2020
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  17. Apr 28, 2020 #3417
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    Day 9

    As I expected, the girl that I confessed to a week ago never responded. I deleted Instagram today. I thank the people who gave me the idea of deleting Instagram. Who else deleted Instagram because of pmo reasons?
     
    Deleted Account, Apr 28, 2020
    Deleted Account, Apr 28, 2020
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  18. Apr 28, 2020 #3418
    LuckyMan

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    Yes, Instagram is bad and full of temptations. I find it is often a p-sub, and I deleted it because it was often a trigger.
     
    LuckyMan, Apr 28, 2020
    LuckyMan, Apr 28, 2020
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  19. Apr 28, 2020 #3419
    Bihari

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    Day 3 done.
     
    Bihari, Apr 28, 2020
    Bihari, Apr 28, 2020
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  20. Apr 29, 2020 #3420
    aggressiveturtle

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    Day 4 done. I’m so fucking depressed. The fact that I’ve never been in a relationship before is weighing down so heavily on me. Fucking hate everything.
     
    aggressiveturtle, Apr 29, 2020
    aggressiveturtle, Apr 29, 2020
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