Oh, so I can have sex, finish and it’s not relapse? That is great ! Next weekend we will try to have sex again, we will see if I will be able to get erection.
Of course it ain't. You can choose hardmode (abstaining from pmo and sex to reboot faster as some people claim) but i believe this is the fastest way to heal as you reboot and rewire at the same time. Be careful with orgasms. You can limit them to be safe
To be honest, It was dofferent sex than before, when I was fapping all day. Few months ago when I had sex with one girl, it was nothing, it was just puting my dick inside and I was not feeling anyithing. Now, when I had sex with my girl, my dick was much more sensitive than before starting NoFap. i told her About my problem, she is ok with that so i’m really happy and there is no reason to fap or watch porn anymore.
Great news! At your state, you have nothing to worry about except staying off porn. Ok, I would cut masturbation for some time too, but cutting porn is mandatory. You can have sex with your gf as much as you want, when you relax more and gain confidence, it will be better each time.
I just need to change my mindset. Now, every time when I’m with my girl planning to do some sexy things I’m in my head thinking If i will be able to get erection. This can also be a problem.
Yes, that can lead to a slight performance anxiety, but try to be with your gf as relaxed as possible and everything will be alright.
Hi all. Yesterday we were out with my girl. We were doing only "hand sex" - fingers and handjob.. but I discovered something. When we started kissing my dick was hard and I was ready to have sex. Then we stopped for a while and when we started again kissing, I was not hard. I was able to get hard again when she started to giving me handjob. Also I relapsed few days ago, but my erection was like rock.
Try not to relapse as it sets you back. Of course its like rock with porn. The idea is to be like rock with a gf.
Hi All. Today we had sex. I was able to get inside only from behind, because it is easy and fast we had sex two times, I was hard but how we were fucking, my dick was not so hard. I was loosing my erection while I was inside
yeah it happens, but at least it was succesfull sex. it will get better with time, just dont watch porn and dont masturbate for a while.
Yeah, It was. Sure I will continue in my nofap journey and hope that soon I will be cured. I think, that I have Huge plus, that I have girlfriend and web Can have sex, I hope this will increase my healing
Hi, again update. Yesterday I was with my girl. We were both so horny. I wanted to put it in her from top, like missionary, but I was not able. I was not able to maintain erection until I put him inside, so we had to go from behind, because this is easy to go in when I have erection. Second round, we started as reversed cowgirl, because again I can put him in easily from behind. It took almost 1 hour, we were changing positions but sometimes thought sex I was starting to be soft, I had to jerk for one minute and then go back. Is that OK? Im able to have some kind of sex with her, I think I'm doing good progress. What do you think? Thank you
It seems ok, just do not masturbate or watch porn. Continue with the girl and everything will be fine.
Thanks you! Sorry for writing All the tíme same info, but I just need to be sure it's going good way.
Hi All. Yesterday we had sex again, I'm able to get erection but when I put him inside, it disapper I can tell it better than it was before, but I still need some time. Is there any advice, what can I do to make it better? I know, don't jerk off, don't watch porn. But Maybe some more tips?
Hey, I can tell that I'm doing better than before. I Can have normal sex with my girlfriend. I Saw Also that when we have sex and fór example we Wang to switch position, my erection is still there. Before i had problem with short erection but IT IS better now Also my penis is more sensitive, I Can feel everything better. Only negative IS that when i feel more i finish sooner