I'd say it depends on a few things. First of all, it depends on your goals: are you doing hard mode or just no PMO? If you're doing hard mode then it's obviously a reset. If not: were you focused on her or were you thinking about porn in order to come? Just asking, cause I used to do that cause otherwise I couldn't climax, so I'd count that as a relapse. In any case, it's probably not helping your reboot too much if you get a handjob from someone on a regular basis - just once, I'd personally, say is ok.
