That'sJustDandy

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Made a decision yesterday that is have a better day rather than being sad. Things aren't perfect, but it did help! Jan 27, 2022

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1. That'sJustDandy
  Day 65 - Things are tough between partner and me today - often are on Sundays. Because I lied. My advice to anyone reading is don't, ever!
  
  Feb 23, 2020
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2. That'sJustDandy
  Day 64 - Haven't posted in a couple of days. Things still going ok - I'm sober. Relationship-wise I'm just not sure.
  
  Feb 22, 2020
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3. That'sJustDandy
  Day 61 - another mixed day - feel like I've done ok - urges to use, but not acting on them. Partner still going through the hell I created
  
  Feb 19, 2020
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  2. Deleted Account
    Sounds like you're trying (rather hard) to remedy the situation.
    
    Feb 19, 2020
    
    | Nico |, vxlccm, That'sJustDandy and 2 others like this.
  3. Raging Wife
    Day 88 for hubby and he is still going through hell too. I'm just paranoid about him all the time. I don't tell him but he can sense it. It's not a life I would have chosen put it that way, but we are here and now we must make the most of it!
    
    Feb 19, 2020
    
    | Nico |, That'sJustDandy, SirErnest and 1 other person like this.
  4. That'sJustDandy
    Thanks for the kind words both :)
    
    Feb 22, 2020
    
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4. That'sJustDandy
  Day 60 - not sure what to say. I'm trying to talk to my partner but it's upsetting and I keep feeling myself pull away. I'm struggling
  
  Feb 18, 2020
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5. That'sJustDandy
  Day 59 - Last night was awful between my partner and me, and I'm away for travelling this week. Feeling low.
  
  Feb 17, 2020
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6. That'sJustDandy
  Day 58 - I've spent today with my partner. It's nice, but I don't know what's going to happen and I hate that
  
  Feb 16, 2020
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7. That'sJustDandy
  Day 57 - One if the most shameful parts of recovery for me is when I want to use. I find it hard to cope as some areas are unavoidable...
  
  Feb 15, 2020
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8. That'sJustDandy
  Day 56 - today was fine. At home with partner tonight, chatted before and clarified a misunderstanding.
  
  Feb 14, 2020
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  2. PeaceOnEarth108
    very good
    
    Feb 14, 2020
    
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  3. Deleted Account
    well done
    
    Feb 14, 2020
    
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9. That'sJustDandy
  Day 55 - Today was tougher than I initially realised. Important to note that. I'm still struggling, even if clean.
  
  Feb 13, 2020
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10. That'sJustDandy
  Day 54 - in a lot of respects, just another day :/ no major triggers or temptation, but some in the back of my head
  
  Feb 12, 2020
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11. That'sJustDandy
  Day 53 - couples therapy was surprisingly good. Really positive!
  
  Feb 11, 2020
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12. That'sJustDandy
  Day 52 - tough but plodding. Slightly more connected with partner I hope and therapy with her tomorrow
  
  Feb 10, 2020
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13. That'sJustDandy
  Day 51 - have to remember I won't fix this or my relationship overnight. I want things to be ok, but they might not be/they'll take time.
  
  Feb 9, 2020
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14. That'sJustDandy
  Day 50 - this feels like a significant number. I'm feeling ok about me but I'm aware of the damage I've to my partner and hate that/myself
  
  Feb 8, 2020
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15. That'sJustDandy
  Day 49 - Lots of urges to use today. No real triggers, but it's there. But I'm in control today. I'm doing all right.
  
  Feb 7, 2020
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  2. marleymellowmood
    49 days is awesome! Well done!! You've got this!!!
    
    Feb 7, 2020
    
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16. That'sJustDandy
  Day 48 - today was ok, no triggering. Partner asked me to get an STD test. Unnecessary but she can't trust me - that's my fault.
  
  Feb 6, 2020
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  2. Khufu
    without trust you cant fully love
    
    Feb 6, 2020
    
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17. That'sJustDandy
  Day 48 - I got through my triggering ok. That makes me feel better about myself. I *can* be better, and I will.
  
  Feb 5, 2020
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18. That'sJustDandy
  Day 47 - Triggered at work. Feels embarrassing to be at work as a professional person and with these thoughts.
  
  Feb 5, 2020
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19. That'sJustDandy
  Day 46 - I'm feeling ok, but my partner is struggling. I want to rebuild "us", but my betrayals make it hard. Trying to show I'm changing
  
  Feb 4, 2020
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20. That'sJustDandy
  Day 45 - Therapy today & I'm generally trying to be more purposeful. Trying to tackle this and show my partner I mean business re: recovery!
  
  Feb 3, 2020
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