Happy to have Baby Anonymous! He is such a sweetheart! Getting used to being a mom one day at a time.
"Never be afraid to fall apart because it is an opportunity to rebuild yourself the way you wish you had been all along."
Exactly! Also if the person you’re with doesn’t appreciate those things then you should leave and never look back.
Hello! I saw you post in the past a link to videos/forum for SO's struggling with betrayal trauma. Is it possible for you to share those with me here? Thanks!
I believe it was the "Understand Betrayal Trauma" thread that you're referencing to: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/understand-betrayal-trauma.128063/
Want to say thank you to all the addicts who have been so kind to me and other partners! I was on a different forum where they attacked us.
This community is amazing. I haven't seen any other public forum on the internet with the sincerity, dedicated love and true support offered up by the NoFap community. It's remarkable!
That's good I find with this experience of nofap you find out things you never knew about yourself or the one's you love. Again welcome to the team we are all in this together!
Resurrecting this, agreed, @Strength And Light - real people all here. Glad we can share resources and time and recover with help!
How can addicts say that their porn addiction has no effect on us, and that all our reactions are prior issues? Ignornance is infuriating.
People in the grip of addiction can become very unaware of the consequences their addiction has on others. Their emotions are totally numbed, so they aren't experiencing empathy or sympathy. They don't realize that when they numb things like depression and anxiety, they also numb all the emotions including joy, satisfaction, etc..
Congrats to you and your husband. Anniversaries can be hard on the SO. We're glad to see that it is a day of celebration. How would your husband feel about putting together a Success Story for us?
He acutally signed up today as Jak3 and I said he should put up the story and what happened to us and how he has turned his life around, I can only hope he will do that, fingers crossed!