20 still a virgin

When was the last time you masturbated to porn?

 

Three weeks is a good start. Keep going and over time changes will happen.

 

Stop thinking about girls for a little while and focus on making yourself a better person, is my suggestion. Do you have anything that a girl would like to see in a man?

And don't just improve with the hopes of getting laid. Make your own path and do it for yourself.

 

iI was 21 before I lost my virginity. To my ex-wife with which I had 8,5 years of relationship.
Been together with my SO for 16 years now.
So yeah, I've only had sex with 2 women. No big deal.

Go make yourself the person you want to be. Not because you want someone to like you. Because you are worth it.
Good luck and thanks for sharing

 

When you're lying on your deathbed, I'm sure your only thought will be: "I wish I had more sex.".

 

You are not entitled to sex! And sex is not entitled to you!
Stop worrying about some arbitrary concept... If it was a wild world, most males wouldn't even get the chance to breed, so it's perfectly natural to not have sex. Now, since it's not a wild world, you can take certain measures to get laid, but will that change anything significant in the grand scheme of things? Just live your life, enjoy whatever you are doing and socialize... I am sure you will get a good girl/guy sooner or later.

 

Virgin at 20 is the smallest problem in the world if you ask me. There are litterally tons of men who are virgin at that age. Granted, many lie about it, but its a fact. And having problems talking to girls in your 20s is also extremely common. Most boys\men in their 20s are huge liars when it comes to how good they are with women, how experienced they are etc, so dont pay any attention to it. Take it from a 34 yr old

As someone said above, concentrate on imporving yourself and let things happen when it happen.

 

At the age of 23, having never been kissed and only having one rejection under my belt- all I can say is the pursuit of sex is not a good way to spend your time. So you're in college? why not spend your time studying, getting good grades, and pushing yourself ahead of all those other students who only live to party.

 

When I read post like these, I have only one suggestion. Go and do it and later you will realize that it was all waste of time and effort.

Same thing for people who run behind money and not happiness.
Same thing for people who go for better degrees but not improving themselves in college.

Bec when someone advises us we feel, he has money now so he is saying money is not worth it. He has sex with 3 girls now so he is saying its not worth it.

Doesn't matter what all here will say, you will not understand. You will understand when time will pass away and you'll realize that I should have listened to it before.
If we would have understood all at once, we could have been succeeded like no one has ever before.

Do whatever you want to do, but remember time is not coming back. And things will become difficult to learn after some time. Better use this time for something which is going to stay with you fore ever. May be a sport, a new language, an instrument or may be a partner.

 

Well I was a virgin your age. I am sure heaps of guys your age were virgins. If I were you I would not worry so much about getting laid. You should go out to events where you can meet women. It does not have to be bars, but you state you are bilingual. Perhaps you can teach a woman you like a language she is interested to learn and you can help her.

 

I’m 20, also a virgin. I sympathize with your situation.

But hey at least you aren’t like this guy. I’ve had more than a few chances and I was too daft to see it.

One girl went as far as inviting me over to her apartment, took me to her bed, put on some Netflix, turned out the lights, initiated a makeout... and all I could think was... “does she really want this?” I broke the kiss, rolled over and acted like I went to sleep. I could imagine the poor girls confusion that night. (Spoiler I did not sleep and 99% sure she did not either). Made for an awkward night of our backs turned to one another.

Sex and intimacy all seems grandiose in theory but if you aren’t prepared for it, it will make you think... wtf am I doing right now.

Honestly after experiencing all that. I’d rather lose it with someone I am comfortable with, and have a good relationship with. But to each their own.

Good luck bro!

 

Losing your virginity is not some kind of honorary act which would give you content, unless you wait for someone with whom you really want to be.
I know it's a cliché, but you should focus on working yourself more than crying over something so trivial.

Ah, I see why you have this username.
Jk

 

try being 25