365 days

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by HE^MAN, Jul 24, 2021.

  1. Started my streak on 22 July 2020 because I was fed up with my habit (2x-3x pmo day).
    In the beginning, I thought to do this for maybe 6 months, then I became a moderator and I increase my streak to a year, then I joined "Lord of the rings challenge" and now my goal is 500 days minimum and maybe later I change it to forever cause there is no reason to repeat the same mistake again.
    "Truth is better than fantasy"

    Before starting this streak I wrote down every thought which comes to me when I relapsed so that I can review the feelings whenever urges are high.
    How I manage my daily urges:-
    *Work out
    *Book reading
    *Cycling, walking
    *Deep breaths
    *Meditation
    *And most importantly I found the reason why I want to do this.

    What I got of this streak:-
    *Clearskin
    *Bigger friend circle
    *Physically changed( more muscles,v shape body)
    *bought bike(classic 350)
    *Approached by girls
    *More power, strength and stamina
    *Less or no anxiety (manageable)
    *Can talk to strangers...
    *Morning wood
    And much more

    Also about social media-
    I only use WhatsApp,nofap, youtube.

    Thnx for reading

    500 days here
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/500-days-of-no-pmo.322483/
     
    Last edited: Dec 1, 2021
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  2. @HE^MAN hello friend I wish you great success ahead in life and I really hope that your streak will go forever and you'll never indulge in p**n again.

    Peace:emoji_innocent:
     
  3. Redemptionisrequired

    Redemptionisrequired Fapstronaut

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    Well done brother, you do have the power!
     
  4. Beekind

    Beekind Fapstronaut

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    Wow.
    My goal was 90. And now that i have done it , i want to go for 150.
    Maybe if i hit that target , i will go for a year and then two ( if the right woman doesn't show up).
     
  5. depeche69

    depeche69 Fapstronaut

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    can you share this with us or is this to private?
    Do you still have flatlines or any depressive phases?
     
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  6. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    You have the power my friend. Keep it up

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  7. Always Keep Going

    Always Keep Going Fapstronaut

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    Time flies when you're making all the right choices. Good job my friend, always remember to stay humble, and just a bit captious with yourself and what you're made of.

    Enjoy this moment of reflection, and cherish that brilliant 'hold on life' that you're experiencing. You earned it!
     
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  8. There were some emotions like why have I done this, I should have abstain and the feelings of depression , worthlessness.. etc I wrote down everything.
    Flatline - NO
    Depression - SOMETIMES but I dont think its from nofap.
     
  9. Always Keep Going

    Always Keep Going Fapstronaut

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    How is the quality of your thoughts? I am not referencing the ribald ones which stem from urges, but rather in your own frame of mind, are you healthy? Can you focus on things and live the moment without thinking "bad thoughts," or do you still experience them and have to put them down before they grow?
     
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  10. kurdo

    kurdo New Fapstronaut

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    Well done
     
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  11. ill try this... meditation mindfulness and enough exercises are key factors.

    BTW well done on your amazing streak!
     
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  12. Yes ,i can focus on things and live the moment without bad thinking:D
     
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  13. KaiokenX20

    KaiokenX20 Fapstronaut

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    That's incredible man, I'll join you in the life challenge as I too want to beat this addiction and NEVER touch porn again. Just wandering if you have noticed any change to your energy levels/mood. I'm almost 2 weeks clean and I'm noticing that whenever I get angry it comes with a huge burst of energy, has this happend with your current state?
    Thanks
     
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  14. Asgardian36

    Asgardian36 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for the List of "How I manage my daily urges" this is a good success story! It tells your story, how you made it and what benfits you have been experiencing. Most success stories these days are one or two lines, like 'Hey guys, I am 1 year PMO free', I'm like piss off doucebag.

    But I liked your Story man, thank you for making this post.
     
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  15. Agent 6

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    Congratulations on 365 days! Your story really motivated me.
     
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  16. GotCaught

    GotCaught Fapstronaut

    Is being a moderator a voluntary job or is there interview like stuff
     
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  17. Too much energy mate, in beginning i was like ready to fight with anybody who misbehave...but now i am directing this energy to build my body.
    Actually this anger is like I am standing for myself, not a submissive guy anymore.
    Voluntary
     
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  18. GotCaught

    GotCaught Fapstronaut

    Age barrier?
    If no, then I would love being a moderator :emoji_heart_eyes_cat:
     
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  20. Dovahkin101

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    Inspirational! At the end of the day we are all human and everyone will have negative thoughts. It's in how we learn to deal with them so that they don't overrun our lives, and so that we have control through optimism and faith rather than listening to them blindly. In your case your positive radiant energy is reigning over any negative perspective in your mind, while those who are controlled by addictions like PMO have their optimism and faith caged in and trapped by those negative thoughts. I think I will make it to day 30 soon and hope to make a success story then to share what I have learned in the past month.
     
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