90 days done, then what?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by SweetHamlet, Mar 15, 2019.

  1. SweetHamlet

    SweetHamlet Fapstronaut

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    I I've been hearing about 90 days to reset your mind to normal basically, that's supposedly the standard I suppose, however I know a lot of guys go for longer than that or forever potentially. I'm going to not watch porn ever again if I can help it, but I want to know for those who got past the 90 days, did you ever have a healthy relationship with masturbation again? One where it didn't control your life, but hey on a good day you might be spontaneous and use your imagination? I've heard about the difference between the inspirational fap and the desperational fap, and idk part of me feels like if I can maintain a healthy relationship with masturbation, then maybe after my mind has reset it's not a bad idea? What are you thoughts
     
  2. Infinite spirit

    Infinite spirit Fapstronaut

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    Masturbation is not healthy by all means . Just quit the whole thing altogether for good. Porn ofcourse is worst than cocaine . Sorry but fapping is for boys..a real man go out the5e and date real women not date his hand.
     
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  3. What if you want to clear the pipes a few days before sex, so you don't spray out poste haste?
     
  4. You'll have to figure out what works for you. There is no one size fits all solution. That won't stop all sorts of batshit nutters on here telling you you're gonna go to hell if you hold your hog too long after taking a piss, mind.
     
  5. Infinite spirit

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    Clear What?! Oh please ..enough nonsense!
     
  6. Well, how fast you cum is partially dependent on when you last came, right? So what if you want to bust a nut a few days before first making love with a lady, so you don't spray out very quickly?
     
  7. Infinite spirit

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    We are supposed to take 10 minutes at least before we cum..ofcourse after years of doing pmo and fapping you develop PE ..so even if you cum before having sex you will finish fast with your girl because that's how you trained yourself to do it.
    Stop fapping ..no excuses .period.
     
  8. I have the opposite problem- delayed ejaculation. When I have completely abstained from fapping in the past, it's reversed that problem too dramatically- a hair trigger so to speak. Then again I did not abstain for long enough for things to reset properly. Will have to see how it goes in the future.
     

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